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she's acting different
Posted Sunday September 12 2010, 7:41 pm
There's this girl who lives near my house. She's four years older than me and im 20.Our families know each other for a very long time. At first my elder brother wanted to be with her but that didn't work out because of the family issues and now he's married.
From last month we started textin each other. I made a total independent impression and she and i became somewhat close to each other. I felt like she had feelings for me and so did i.
we usually chat during the night.we didn't chat for two nights, for me it was like normal to give a break to increase curiosity. But now when i chat she's different. She doesn't take that much interest and her responses seem artificial.
I dont know what i did wrong. And i also know ...
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No more butterflies?
Posted Sunday September 12 2010, 4:38 pm
So I've been with my boyfriend exactly one year yesterday. For like a month or so now, everytime we hang out and go out on dates and stuff, I don't feel like I used to about being with him. It's fun and not awkward or anything, I just feel "content" I guess. And it sucks a lot because I really love him and I really want to make it work...and I'm going to try, I just don't know what to do because I've never been in this situation before. I told him about my "content" feeling and he said we should try new things so I could get the butterflies back...will that work? I haven't got any idea of what to do so any advice will help me. Thank you :)
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What is a cute/creative way to ask a guy to prom as friends?
Posted Sunday September 12 2010, 2:18 pm
i really would like to have ideas! i want it to be memorable (: thank you in advance!
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how come they can't accept me for who i am?
Posted Saturday September 11 2010, 11:47 pm
Okay, I'm 16 & a female. I'm also bisexual & my boyfriend can't accept the fact that I'm bi. He says he wishes I liked ONLY guys & stuff like that. Then he says that he hates gays, lesbians, bisexuals & it hurts. But then my bigsissy ( well that's what I call her ) can't stand the fact that I'm bisexual either. Like when I told her, she said you spent the night over my house & we slept in the same bed together, you could've touched me. Like I mean really? I'm not attracted to every female/male I see, so that doesn't mean I'll touch them. It just hurts, plus when I hang with both of them, they high 5 each other for disliking me being bisexual. "/ what should I do?
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about boys, a general question. HELP!
Posted Saturday September 11 2010, 7:33 pm
so i was just wondering.
if i guy is dating a girl for a long time (8 months) and its the longest he has ever had (others were a month & didnt mean anything), will that guy tend to run away from his emotions?
and if so, will that guy ever realize that he is running from his emotions and just face it or will he just act like nothing happened?
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THE perfect guy and i want less?
Posted Saturday September 11 2010, 6:07 pm
alright i have the best bf in the world, he treats me right, were good mates, we talk, theres action lol u get the drill.
but i dont like him as much as i want to, i feel like i still have feelings for my ex .. even though hes a tool and treated me horribly.
My ex still has feelings for me, but were just good mates.
he is constantly bugging me and my bf for attention, and i think my bf knows i like him to.
what do i do?
and also we have only been dating for three weeks and were moving quite fast how can i get us to slow down but still kept him pleased?
14/f
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Stay or go?
Posted Saturday September 11 2010, 6:02 pm
I really don't know if I should stay with the guy im with right now. None of my family really like him. He's going to college while I chose to stay here and work, so he lives 5 hours away. I've been with him for a year and 3 months, so I do love him. I know he loves me, and he has never cheated or done anything to make me want to break up. I guess the new feeling is just fading, He's really invested in the two of us while im sort of doing what makes me happy at the time, if that makes sense. What I'm wondering is should I just wait this unsure feeling out or cut to the chase and end it? He's my first real relationship, so i just don't know what to do. Give me your thoughts and advice on this.
Thanks.
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How do I cope?
Posted Saturday September 11 2010, 4:10 pm
In October, I will have known this guy for four years. We were always really good friends, I thought. It seemed like we were always spending time with each other and able to talk about things. He would have girlfriends and I would date other people as well. I've only had sex with one guy my whole 20 years of living, this guy knew that. We finally decided to try to date this year. At first things were a little rocky. Neither one of us knew how to act, I think. Eventually things started getting better. After a few months, and being friends for basically four years, we started messing around (everything except sex). He was a completely different person; he was calling me every night. He was telling me how lucky he was to have me, and how happy...
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moving on
Posted Saturday September 11 2010, 3:04 pm
what are some ways to move on?I had a really rough break up about a week ago and he went from saying he wanted to marry me someday to not wanting to be with me at all in like 2 days.Then he kept changing his mind about wanting to be with me or not and finally he decided he wanted to be with me and changed his mind AGAIN so now we are just friends.how do i move on from him?!?!i miss him so much...
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family drama
Posted Saturday September 11 2010, 2:34 am
I'm 16/female.
I broke up with my ex boyfriend 3 weeks ago because hes going through family drama. And he didnt have time to be in a relationship. His parents are getting a divorce and its straight up drama. I thought it would of been the best decision to end us, but I feel horrible and i told him that I should of been by his side and not have quit on him. He said we could try this next year until all of his family drama is over. And it was going to be our 10 month anniversary this month. He was my first love and i truly believe that if i havent broken up with him we could of been together for a very long time.. And now we still talk and he admitted he still loved me and I told him I loved him also and that I would wait for him until...
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Coming out of the closet
Posted Saturday September 11 2010, 2:17 am
Ive been thinking about this for so long, and im just having so much trouble actually processing that im gay/bi.
Heck, it took a lot out of me just to go here.
I keep on doubting myself and my identity.
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Talking to someone online
Posted Friday September 10 2010, 11:46 pm
What kinds of things would a guy say to flirt on aim? This is assuming you know this person in real life and are classmates. Thanks.
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who should i go for ?
Posted Friday September 10 2010, 9:40 pm
ohk so there is these 2 boys i both like in all of my classes . and they both wanna be with me . but its hard , there names are ronnie and eirik . ronnie has brown hair and is so fun and sweet . eirik has blond hair . and is hilarious and cute . i dont no what to do . ronnie is his self around me no matter what and eirik seems a little shy sometimess . uhh please help .
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MIxed emotions </3
Posted Friday September 10 2010, 8:28 pm
Posted Friday September 10 2010, 8:24 pm
okk soo im 17/f
ok sooo me and my ex hung out today... and my feelings started coming bak for him... what do i do ? do i "talk" to him again or do i stay with my boyfriend? i love them both ! bt me and my ex have a past together yu no and i already know he likes me the way he did before.... i honestly dnt no what to do i need advice bad like its crazy... nd i jus found out that my boyfriends not coming to my skool anymore which really suckss ='[ so what do i do?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? the thing that i dont want to happen is that me and my ex do go bak out and then he ends up breaking my heart again </3 i dont want to feel that feelings aga...
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silent treatment
Posted Friday September 10 2010, 2:45 pm
Ok Husband constantly texting friends of mine setting up coffee dates, etc that i cancel. Through my phone!! he demands i get new "girlfriends all the time. when i dont go on these "dates" i get the silent treatment for a week or two. just yesterday he texted a new frien of mine ( a massage therapist) and set up a massage for me with her without telling me. I just had a massage elsewhere last week and said I felt great! he said "if you love me, you will get it done, it will make me (him) happy. I am now getting the silent treatment and I wish he would just punch me already! this has been going on for 6 years and shows no signs of stopping.he wont let me have unattractive "friends" either. i think it is totally sexually charged. HELP!!!
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What should I do?
Posted Friday September 10 2010, 2:04 pm
hey, well i recently moved to a new school and after a few months i really started to like this guy. He found out i liked him and said to my friends that he wouldn't go out with me JUST because i liked him. i stopped liking him and a big group of my friends went out one day and apparently him and i really go well together. he found out that i liked him again. and now my friends saying that she's going to ask him out for me but i really don't want her to. should i tell him? by the way we are good friends.
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sad confused happy
Posted Friday September 10 2010, 3:28 am
ok so like about 4 months ago i REALLY liked this guy and we kind of had a thing but then he hooked up with my friend so i was hurt. but then he apoligized so i was like whatever. Then my other friend used him ( this is why i was over him) to get back at her ex. so i laughed becuase it was really funny the way it went down. ANYWAYS so weve been talking agian for about 2 months now and hes been flirting ALOT but i've never said anything back all i say is haah aww thanks or something like that but deep down inside i stil like him a litte. But tonight he asked me to homecoming and its a long story but I ended up saying no but we were chill bout it and we just keep talking like this never happend. so what i'm trying to ask is did I do the right...
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Is It Wrong?
Posted Thursday September 9 2010, 11:40 pm
Hi, I am 18f. I have a boyfriend the same age. We have been dating for three months, but I have known him for six. He is the first guy I have dated and he makes me feel like no other guy has made me feel. He is caring, honest, he listens, and he is just a nice guy. He lives almost an hour away though and even though he makes time to see me.. I have my doubts. I mean, he is good to me... but we don't have too much in common. We don't care for eachothers music (which gets annoying) and we do not have the same interests at all.. how can this work? Should we just be friends? I keep thinking I should stay with him cause he is so good to me, but then I wonder why I am with him if we don't have many common interests..?. Should I stay with him unti...
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why? guys may answer if needed
Posted Thursday September 9 2010, 9:20 pm
i was just wondering, do guys run away from emotions they are feeling?
like say he is in a committed relationship and its the longest he has ever had by far and his feelings are different then the other two girls he dated, would he run away from it cause he doesnt know whats going on?
i know stuff about guys but i just want to make it certain. and if a girl insults a guy. how hard do they take it? and will they ever forgive a girl for that? or will they test her to see if she will do it again?
sorry silly questions but i need answer. thanks! :)
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How to talk to this boy .
Posted Thursday September 9 2010, 5:59 pm
I just started my new school , and I've been seeing this boy when I'm in the hallways going to another class. I think he is really cute. How do i talk to him ? I never talked/introduce myself to a boy before. Any advice or help ! Please. BOYSS cann you answer to ! Thank-You ! You may say this is childish but to me its not . So can you not say that , cause I do have feelings , noo we never talked or sayed nothing to each other just looked into each other eyes.
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