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she's acting different
There's this girl who lives near my house. She's four years older than me and im 20.Our families know each other for a very long time. At first my elder brother wanted to be with her but that didn't work out because of the family issues and now he's married.
From last month we started textin each other. I made a total independent impression and she and i became somewhat close to each other. I felt like she had feelings for me and so did i.
we usually chat during the night.we didn't chat for two nights, for me it was like normal to give a break to increase curiosity. But now when i chat she's different. She doesn't take that much interest and her responses seem artificial.
I dont know what i did wrong. And i also know that she's not seeing anyone else.......i just want her to be like she was before.......ANY IDEAS WHAT IS IT ALL ABOUT????
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she may be trying to see how interested you are in her. If you keep trying to talk to her like you are interested it could be just what she wants, like she is testing you. The best thing to do is to talk to her about it, ask her why she is acting like this, at least you will know the truth. :)
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If your pretty sure she does have feelings for you then it sounds like she may be talking a step back, to evaluate things.
Your four years younger then her, which for some girls is a bit too much of an age difference, especially when the guys the younger one (I say that from experience) also your elder brother had feelings for her too which will probably make her feel as though she shouldn't like you. If you really like her, you'll have to convince her it's ok.
All this being said if you talk to her about it she probably would appreciate it. Even if you say something like, "Hey are you ok? You've been acting kinda different lately and I care about you and wanted to make sure you were alright." Or something along those lines. She'll appreciate it.
Good Luck!
I hope that helped!!!
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