Question Posted Saturday September 11 2010, 6:02 pm
I really don't know if I should stay with the guy im with right now. None of my family really like him. He's going to college while I chose to stay here and work, so he lives 5 hours away. I've been with him for a year and 3 months, so I do love him. I know he loves me, and he has never cheated or done anything to make me want to break up. I guess the new feeling is just fading, He's really invested in the two of us while im sort of doing what makes me happy at the time, if that makes sense. What I'm wondering is should I just wait this unsure feeling out or cut to the chase and end it? He's my first real relationship, so i just don't know what to do. Give me your thoughts and advice on this.
sunshine1232 answered Sunday September 12 2010, 10:07 am: You've got to do what makes you happy if feel like
you should end it then you should you've got to think are you going to be willing to travel 5 hours to see him? Both ways traveling there then coming back long distance relationships usually don't work out it's better to see the person your dating face to face and in person instead of being distant from them and being apart that isn't good for the relationship if you do end up staying you might end up regretting it because you might not like the fact that you'll be away from him and having to travel to go see him it's easier if he was near you if you aren't happy in the relationship there's no point in staying in it...it's best if you got out then you'll be happier and you'll be able to move on you don't know if the unsure feeling will go away it may or may not if your wanting to end it then end it do
what makes you happy in the end that's the main thing that truely counts if you aren't happy then it's probably not worth it(: [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
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