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Coming out of the closet
Ive been thinking about this for so long, and im just having so much trouble actually processing that im gay/bi.
Heck, it took a lot out of me just to go here.
I keep on doubting myself and my identity.
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Okayy, honestly, be yourself. Nobody can tell you different. Love who you are and what you are. I mean, I'm bisexual myself & I get a hard time. I've been through that stage of doubting yourself. Don't be ashamed of how you feel/how you are, love yourself. You'll be ready to tell that you're ready to come out the closet when you can accept that you love yourself & know who you truly are.
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Your sexuality isn't who you are. That's like saying your identity is based on whether you prefer Coke or Pepsi. It's just a part of you.
Don't focus too much on the word. Let relationships happen as they will. Also, you don't exactly have to announce to the world that you like the same sex. I'm bisexual, and my family doesn't even know because I've never had a serious girlfriend. If you meet someone, then you can bring it up.
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It's important to understand that your identity is determined by your actions and not the other way around.
If you meet a cute girl and you want to go on a date, ask her out. If you meet a cute guy and you want to go on a date, ask him out.
You don't need to worry about who/what you are, it's enough to just worry about about who you want to spend time with, and whose butt you want to squeeze.
And remember that however you're feeling, a lot of other people are feeling it too.
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well i think you should tell someone you cant help but how you feel and you feel like your a dike just get over it and tell someone!xxx
Your Friend CuteyKitty123!..xx
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