Question Posted Saturday September 11 2010, 2:34 am
I'm 16/female.
I broke up with my ex boyfriend 3 weeks ago because hes going through family drama. And he didnt have time to be in a relationship. His parents are getting a divorce and its straight up drama. I thought it would of been the best decision to end us, but I feel horrible and i told him that I should of been by his side and not have quit on him. He said we could try this next year until all of his family drama is over. And it was going to be our 10 month anniversary this month. He was my first love and i truly believe that if i havent broken up with him we could of been together for a very long time.. And now we still talk and he admitted he still loved me and I told him I loved him also and that I would wait for him untill he is ready to be in a serious relationship.. I was his first serious relationship. and I think in the time between us not being together he's going to want to date other girls. And i respect that because i'm the second relationship that hes been. Do you think I should keep waiting on him? What should i do if he goes out with someone else? My apologies that this was long, but I really need some input. He's 16. I love him so much and I would be anything to stay by his side and help him through the hard times.. Please give me your input I would really appreciate. Thank you
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sunshine1232 answered Saturday September 11 2010, 9:46 pm: I think you should keep waiting on him seeing as
you said you'd wait until he's ready to be in a serious relationship if you love him like you say you do then you'll wait you can't say to him you'll wait then back down and change your mind if you wait for him your not quitting on him your sticking by what you said to him and even though the two of you are broken up you'd still be there for him somewhat you'd be staying true to what you said i don't think there's much you can do if he decides to date other girls it's his decision his choice i think the only thing you can do is respect what he decides to do and be happy for him if it does happen that will be something that you have no control over i don't think he'd tell you he loved you if he didn't truely mean
it he wouldn't say it for the sake of saying it he
wouldn't lie to you so yes i do think you should wait for him right now he needs your support even
though the two of you aren't together anymore you
could still be there for somewhat and help him the
tough times he's going through(: [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
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