ok so like about 4 months ago i REALLY liked this guy and we kind of had a thing but then he hooked up with my friend so i was hurt. but then he apoligized so i was like whatever. Then my other friend used him ( this is why i was over him) to get back at her ex. so i laughed becuase it was really funny the way it went down. ANYWAYS so weve been talking agian for about 2 months now and hes been flirting ALOT but i've never said anything back all i say is haah aww thanks or something like that but deep down inside i stil like him a litte. But tonight he asked me to homecoming and its a long story but I ended up saying no but we were chill bout it and we just keep talking like this never happend. so what i'm trying to ask is did I do the right thing like I feel sad inside becuase I did want to go with him but it would've been awk cause I wouldnt have none anyone except my best friend becuase they go to a diff school. but anyways like why do i still like him after all this? im not a person to be like yeah i'll go to homecoming with you im a very shy and conservative person idont know i feel sad and confused =[ help thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? freebutterfly answered Friday September 10 2010, 11:07 am: okay, so i know exactly how you feel, i think it might be lust, i have liked a guy for awhile, he is so cute and all, but he is just a jerk, like this guy that you are talking about sounds like a jerk and a player, i think if you went out with him to homecoming it would have been awkward and also i don't think you would have gotten much out of it, if you guys ever date i think things wouldn't last that long, he seems like a guy that just likes to flirt A LOT, i think it was the best for you to not go with him, you shouldn't put yourself in that situation, but if you don't mind having a little fling with him, then go ahead, some people want that. him going around with all your friends sounds like a player. anyways, i hope i helped a bit! [ freebutterfly's advice column | Ask freebutterfly A Question ]
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