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Cannot leave but it hurts to stay....
Posted Tuesday November 16 2010, 1:20 am
Hello everyone. I really do not know who or where else to turn to with this problem so I am coming back to advicenators after a very long time to ask for some much needed advice.
I am female, 19, in college. I go to a very good college, 30 minutes away from home, live on campus, and work close to school. I am dating a man that is 27 years old, lives almost 1.5 hours away from my school, and works even farther. We love each other very much, but I am not happy.
We have been together on and off for almost two years now. We have had a lot of problems because of our age difference and because of his past. I have helped him through a lot and he has helped me mature. I love him, but the truth is that sometimes I fee...
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Ex-boyfriend?
Posted Monday November 15 2010, 10:49 pm
19/F
So, my ex-boyfriend and I broke up a lifetime ago. Recently, my dad's girlfriend started working at the same hospital that he works (he's on the lift team and she's a PT).
Anyways, So I've always still kinda have feelings for him, although dating him would probably not be for the best.
So, from what my dad's girlfriend told me... he is always talking to this girl at the front desk and she said that he has no reason to be there.
And she said that the girl looks exactly like me.
So, why?
We had a bad falling out and it was his fault for treating me like shit (he stood me up and then lied about it and this was when we were "talking" again, we were...
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boys
Posted Monday November 15 2010, 9:56 pm
how can you tell if a guy likes you by body language?
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does this make me slutty
Posted Monday November 15 2010, 9:24 pm
okay im 14 and last year i got fingered n da laundry room of my house n i gave da guy a hand job (the guy was my bestfriends ex n dey broke up on da day of, later on i stole anutha one of my friends boyfriends, next i lost my virginity to n da band room at skool to one of da snair drummers( da percussion section is full of players) im on da flag team by the way. also i gave da guy a blow job on da staircase at skool while three of his percussion bruthas watched, den i gave anutha one of the snair drummers a blow job n da bathroom at skool, den i had sex with one of the drill(dance) team girls boyfriend which is also a snair drummer... does that make me slutty???
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to talk to or not to talk to?
Posted Monday November 15 2010, 9:22 pm
so, i had a boyfriend of a year. we broke up in december 09. i went out with someone else immediately and when we broke up, he was interested in someone else.
basically, we began to be on separate teams. we hated each other. we started rumors, and his new girlfriend absolutely hated me. we would say shit out loud in the hallways at school. it was bad and literally a war. some adults got involved.
in july, it was his birthday. i said happy birthday and he told me off.
in august, we hung out with a group. he seemed fine & we talked okay. he hugged me hello & goodbye. i havent talked to him since, because he goes to a boarding school now.
then on oct 30, mischief night, we ...
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I want us to be more than friends!
Posted Monday November 15 2010, 8:16 pm
There is this boy in my life and he is special to me i really care about him and want us to be more than friends. we tell each other everything but there is one problem HIS EX ugh she hangs around him nonstop she cheated on him so he says he doesn't like her but i know she likes him should i be worried?
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do i text him or leave it?
Posted Monday November 15 2010, 7:06 pm
heey so there's this guy and lets call him j and i met j in a very weird way... i was at my sister's boyfriend's hockey game and j is on the team and after he asked for my number and i gave it to him. But later that night i heard bad stuff about him that he is a player and hes a jerk to girls buut i didnt really listen to that and i talked to other people and they say hes really nice.
Anyways we started texting and at first i wasnt attracted to him and he was trying really really hard to get me and he complimented me every single text and it growed on me and i started liking him too and one day things were great and then the next day i texted him and he didnt reply and we didnt talk for a week.
So at this point i liked him al...
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Should I stay or Should i go?
Posted Monday November 15 2010, 6:13 pm
So ive been dating this guy for the past 3 months we work together,so i see him on the weekends when we both work.I commute to college, he lives on campus both of us go to different schools, hsi is 20 minutes away.Well I finally asked him what we were because i was confused and i didnt see him this past weekend,so i texted him it and he says well i would say were just getting with each other i dont want to mess it up with me being in school but ill let you know if things change i said oh so do you want me to get with other guys? and he said right now i wouldnt like it but i wont hod it against you if you do i said i feel the same way and he said alright glad were on the same page. The messed up part kinda bothers me like so your away at sch...
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I feel extremely shallow
Posted Monday November 15 2010, 5:22 pm
Hey! I'm a fifteen year old girl, sophomore. My boyfriend is a seventeen year old boy, junior. We've been dating for three months but we've been friends for years. Okay the thing is, I'm a girl that's extremely attracted to the athletic kind of guys, and really turned off by laziness... That's just my type I guess. My boyfriend is fit and active and plays football and baseball. Butttt... he's recently decided he wants to quit baseball. He says he just doesn't want to play this year. Is it bad that I WANT him to play?? Because I do... It's just thats part of why I'm attracted to him I thought that was part of who he was and I dunno I feel like it's really shallow but I just want him to play. And I don't know what to do because it's actually ...
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Should he stay or should he go?
Posted Monday November 15 2010, 12:19 pm
I will just give you a run down of our relationship, and then a pros and con list otherwise ill go on for hours.
we are 20, have a 5 month old daughter and she is gorgeous. we have been together for three years. When we got together, he was a rebound..after one year we were living together. we were pregnant at 2 years. and now living at my mothers (and hating it)
pros-
he is my daughters father. hes gorgeous. i do love him. he is very talented and could go far. he cooks for me. he loves me. he is very faithful. has a great personality sometimes.
cons-
i have not been single since i was 14. he never tells me im beautiful, i am beginning to think he is not attracted to me because of ...
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me and my bf are diffrent ages
Posted Monday November 15 2010, 12:02 pm
i am 14 and my boyfriend is 18 about to be 19. he is a senior and i am a freshman..... my family does not aprove of the age diffrence.i do not no what to do ab out it. Because my mom wants me 2 break up with him. but i dont want 2..... i realy love him! should i listen 2 my mom or follow my heart?
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I can't decide whether or not to stay with him...
Posted Monday November 15 2010, 4:56 am
So basically I have been in love with this boy for two years before we finally started going out. Now we've been together for a while now, and he's a busy person. He spends a lot of time doing working, or visiting family, or whatever. I know he tries to spend time with me, but he just can't. I can't decide whether or not I'm making something out of nothing, but this something is starting to bother me. Do I end things and move on or just chill out and remember that he loves me?
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I cheated on him because he didn't show me enough affection
Posted Monday November 15 2010, 4:11 am
Ok so im 22 and i have been engaged for about 10 months now, and we are always fighting and basically there seems to be no love, for example we dont have sex,( hes muslim) im british so it crosses my mine hes waiting until we are married,but there are no cuddles or kisses i have to ask for them and his tone these days seems to be abit rude, we have a property together and we are not living in it he is still living with my parents with me. I dont know what to do. Also i feel bad because a year before we was engaged he broke up with me we was dating before and in that year i went away to university and met someone else and had passion all the time, and sex and i feel bad and wish that, that never happened, i never told him about the other guy...
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Get preg from blow jobs
Posted Monday November 15 2010, 2:18 am
Can you get pregnet from giving someone a blow job
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im confused as to what this means...
Posted Monday November 15 2010, 12:53 am
18 female, hes 19 male.
ok so me and this guy (lets call me jack) got really really close to dating in year 10, i confessed that i liked him, he told me he didn't feel the same so i got over him. So i decided to pursue another guy and move on. One night, Jack wanted to video chat, but i was already video chatting with the guy i was pursuing. so i told him that i was already on with this other guy. anyway years passed and i found out that jack did like me too, but was to scared to confess he liked me back. I also found out that when i told him i was video chatting with someone else that was the moment that he got over me and stopped liking me.
this isnt an exaggeration but every single girl he has dated or liked has an...
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trouble in love
Posted Sunday November 14 2010, 11:47 am
Ok so Im dating this guy he likes to drink in gamble and he can be sweet but i dont no if i can trust him. also my dad dont like him.I been hanging with my guy friend and he is amazing n im starting to really like him he dont drink or do anything he dont even smoke and i can be my self around him and the good thing is my dad really likes him.my dads opinion is really important to me btw..but my boyfriend is texting my bestfriend and flirting with her he swears he's not but it is flirting and we barly talk which is messed up so i broke up with him and he is flipping out cause he said my find is just jealous and i dont thnk so cause we been friends for 8 years and i only no my bf for 6 months so my question is should i forgive my boyfriend an...
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why is my ex being so persistent?
Posted Sunday November 14 2010, 3:45 am
Ok so my ex broke up with me about 3 months ago, it was a decision that I regrettably pushed onto him but he still did it. Straight away I realised it was a mistake n he said he thought he'd made a mistake too. Any way I tried getting back but he weren't having any of it so I just left him, n said I didn't wanna be friends. 3 months later n he still won't let go!!! He makes excuses to text me, pretends someone else has text me from his phone, last week told me he loves me, misses me, can't get over me. I asked him what he wants n he said he doesn't know. He's constantly saying he thinks its ridiculous that I won't stay in contact with him n he keeps saying 'you never know what will happen in the future. You could get a new bf and then get b...
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what does it mean
Posted Saturday November 13 2010, 1:39 pm
when a guy looks at you and smiles and then looks down and smiles?
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calling a girl fat?
Posted Saturday November 13 2010, 8:56 am
i accidently called my gf fat what do i do ?
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Why do I like to crossderss
Posted Saturday November 13 2010, 3:36 am
I love to dress up with jhose and panties heels and cute dresses.I don't think I am gay.my girl friend does not object and I will not hide it from her I just feel inadequate and guilty why
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