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do i text him or leave it?
heey so there's this guy and lets call him j and i met j in a very weird way... i was at my sister's boyfriend's hockey game and j is on the team and after he asked for my number and i gave it to him. But later that night i heard bad stuff about him that he is a player and hes a jerk to girls buut i didnt really listen to that and i talked to other people and they say hes really nice.
Anyways we started texting and at first i wasnt attracted to him and he was trying really really hard to get me and he complimented me every single text and it growed on me and i started liking him too and one day things were great and then the next day i texted him and he didnt reply and we didnt talk for a week.
So at this point i liked him alot and was really hurt by him not talking to him but i wanted to tell him off, so i texted him and said "thanks for showing me that everyone was right about you" and he replyed and asked what i was talking about and i told him that one day he was all sweet and the next he didnt reply and he told me that he didnt get it and the reason why he didnt text me was because he thought i didnt wanna talk and i told him that i did. I never did tell him i liked him but i told him that i did wanna talk to him and we talked for a fewdays, he was pretty sweet but not at all like he was before we stopped talking. but the one night after he said goodnight he never texted me the next day and i havent talk to him since and its been about a week and a half
So what do you think i should do? should i just leave it? But i really was starting to like him... or should i text him? and if so what should i say?
Thanks sooo much! :)
kaaitlyn
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Hey,
Everyone has a good side and a bad side. Maybe he was just having a bad day and didn't feel like talking to anybody and then the next day was alright and he felt like talking to you..?. you never know. Is it kids your age that say he is bad? and is it adults that say he is good? If so, he must have respect in him. That doesn't mean you shouldn't be a bit wary though. Until you really know him, I wouldn't judge him based solely on what people tell you.. there have to be some facts in place first.
I don't know why he thought you didn't want to talk to him. Maybe he was just wanting you to text him because he wanted to know if you were interested. Sometimes guys just hang out and wait to see if a girl will text them and ask how they are doing, they don't always want to be first. He could of been thinking "she hasn't texted me so she isn't interested". After this last time, he could of stopped talking, cuz he was busy. I would send him a text saying "where did you go?". If he doesn't respond, leave it. If he does respond, find out why he isn't talking to you. He obviously liked you if he asked for your number... but then again, he may be a jerk. Sometimes guys will ask for a girls number and not text them just cuz they wanted an ego boost. Its stupid and ignorant, but some guys do it.
If his reasons make no sense or you feel as if he is playing you, drop him immediately. There's no harm in finding out an honest answer, but there will be harm if he is just playing you. Know the facts, then decide <3
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It seems to me like what other people say about him is true. And let me just say i don't believe what other people tell me about someone else. But this guy sounds like a jerk. You don't need a guy like that. Move on. and find someone who appreciates you.
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