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Why do I like to crossderss


Question Posted Saturday November 13 2010, 3:36 am

I love to dress up with jhose and panties heels and cute dresses.I don't think I am gay.my girl friend does not object and I will not hide it from her I just feel inadequate and guilty why

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awesomeal16 answered Wednesday December 8 2010, 1:41 pm:
Your not gay, you have a fetish. Nothing wrong with that, everyone has a fetish. being gay is having attraction to men.

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adviceman49 answered Saturday November 13 2010, 9:53 am:
I don't have an answer as to why. What you have in cross-dressing is called a fetish and there is nothing wrong with any fetish as long as no one is hurt buy it.

Are you gay because you cross-dress? No you would be gay is you have sex with other men but you don't. You say your girlfriend does not object to your cross-dressing and this is a good thing.

Fetishes are considered a sexual activity; as long as both partners agree to it there is nothing wrong in indulging in your fetish. Even if this was a closeted fetish for you; meaning you indulged yourself by yourself. As long as no one is hurt by what you do who cares, enjoy yourself.

You have a very understanding girlfriend. Some women would not understand the need behind this fetish and the needs are as individual as there are people who indulge in this. Should you want to find people and couples like you and your girlfriend you could try searching the Internet. Start with cross-dressing couples.

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