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I can't decide whether or not to stay with him...
So basically I have been in love with this boy for two years before we finally started going out. Now we've been together for a while now, and he's a busy person. He spends a lot of time doing working, or visiting family, or whatever. I know he tries to spend time with me, but he just can't. I can't decide whether or not I'm making something out of nothing, but this something is starting to bother me. Do I end things and move on or just chill out and remember that he loves me?
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Talk about it with him and see how he feels. Talk with family too to try and set up to where you two can be together. If you really don't like it then just move on, but choose wisely. Youay regret leaving him.
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If it really bothers you that much maybe you should sit him down and have a talk with him don't just throw in the towel you might regret it later
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well from past expsperience i say talk to him about him and tell him how much you miss him and how u guys dont hangoutt alot and maybe you can visit his family with him and do more things together and remember that he loves you.
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Hi,
Ask yourself, where do you think this relationship will go? If he tries to be there for you and is, but only part time, is that enough for you? I think that if you are alright with him spending little hours with you, then it is alright to try and keep this moving. If you feel though, that this guy has too many other priorities that are not you, I don't think you should try to keep this relationship. It is different to be friends with someone and be able to see them once and a while, but when it is your boyfriend he should be able to devote an afternoon or so to you at least in a week.
It sounds as if you are wanting more and it is not happening. You are not having all your needs met by this guy. I am positive you will find someone who will make not just time, but extra time to come see you. If you feel the time he gives you is not enough, then I would just be friends with him. Let him know that you really care for him, but it isn't working out like you thought. If he does respect you, he should be alright with what you say. Don't just chill out, remember that he loves you and stick by him as a friend. Then, if he ever does open up some free space in his schedule... you could always try again <3
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