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why is my ex being so persistent?
Ok so my ex broke up with me about 3 months ago, it was a decision that I regrettably pushed onto him but he still did it. Straight away I realised it was a mistake n he said he thought he'd made a mistake too. Any way I tried getting back but he weren't having any of it so I just left him, n said I didn't wanna be friends. 3 months later n he still won't let go!!! He makes excuses to text me, pretends someone else has text me from his phone, last week told me he loves me, misses me, can't get over me. I asked him what he wants n he said he doesn't know. He's constantly saying he thinks its ridiculous that I won't stay in contact with him n he keeps saying 'you never know what will happen in the future. You could get a new bf and then get back with me' I'm tired of trying to work him out!! What does he want??
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
he misses you. OR... he misses having a girlfriend. you gotta be careful right now. if you miss him, you can go back to him but risk getting hurt again because he might dump you again for the same reason. if you're really tired of working the relationship out, you gotta talk to him and just say- listen, you need to move on. stop thinking about the past and think about your future.
i do agree with him when he says- you never know what will happen in the future. nobody is psychic so you can't predict that you guys will never get back together. but then again, you can control what happens between you 2.
my advice right now is for you to just focus on right now. dont think about the past but dont think about the future. just think about right now. this is the present time. tell him what you feel is the right thing to do. say it wont work out right now but the future is possible. you just need time to think about yourself and figure out what you want in life.
i wish you well!
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