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There are two people i truly care about, but cant have both.
Posted Monday November 29 2010, 10:29 pm
I'm a female and currently a senior in highschool. I have 2 ppl I truly care about, for privacy purpose we can call them Derek and Jeremy. I met Derek 9th grade. And dated him for almost 3yrs. I moved highschool's after sophomore year and our relationship actually got stronger, I sad to say I only saw him like 2ce a year. So it didn't seem like much of a relationship. Junior year I met Jeremy and we hit it off right away, I cheated on Derek. And later broke up with him. I have been dating Jeremy for about 8 months now, and still talk to Derek like if we have a relationship. I love them both and have no clue what to do, I feel like I'm hurting both of them. And myself. Derek is my best friend and I can't lose him, I mean he's still here afte...
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Love at first sight-ish
Posted Monday November 29 2010, 10:11 pm
A few days ago I met a friend of a friend. I had met him once before but we didn't really talk. This time we talked and I just felt like we connected in such a bizarre way. He asked me personal questions and told me that he admired my personality. We are also very similar because we are sometimes quiet and people see us as very sweet. I spent a few days in his company and felt these deep feelings. I've never connected to someone so quickly. He lives very far away and it's unlikely that we'll ever become close friends. It feels like I'm losing him and it hurts but at the same time I know I'll be fine. Could this be love? Is such a thing possible? Am I just exaggerating?
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Boy Trouble
Posted Monday November 29 2010, 8:58 pm
Okayy well i have this boy in my school and my bus and i like him and he really likes me and all. Last year he asked me out but i said no because he did things that could ruin peoples live ( drink, Drugs) and im on the right track and i plan to stay on that track!! But the thing is He told me he doesnt do those things anymore for me i part of me thinks he is lying and part just want to run into his arms but mY Friends made a excellent point to me he has nothing going for himself and That isnt part of my right track plan. Im a Straight A student who is also a very talented athletic person i play many sports and so does he. I thought his grades was the deal breaker * Its a No* But two days ago he told me that he is going to try and work harde...
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Long Distance?
Posted Monday November 29 2010, 7:55 pm
16/f
So me and my boyfriend really like each other. Maybe love but I don't like pushing myself into saying that until I am completely sure. He says he loves me and all that. I do believe him and he's completely honest with me.
The thing is, he's moving to another state about 6 hours away.
When we got together we both knew he'd be moving eventually but decided to make the best of it while we can.
Well he is totally serious about me and we have this very long talk about what we're gonna do when he leaves. He brought up three options, we could just break up and go our separate ways, stay friends still after high school then get together if we still feel the same(we only have a year and a half of school le...
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Boys
Posted Monday November 29 2010, 7:45 pm
16/f
So this is probably gonna be long...
Well I have a boyfriend of almost 2 months. We really like each other and all that. We were friends for about 2 years before we decided to date. He is my age.
Then there is this guy who I've also been friends with for 2 years. He's 18 and we liked each other. But we decided nothing to happen since he's going to college. He'll be coming home for breaks and all that and I'm gonna go to the same college as he is, not because he is going there, it's just always been the plan. Don't know why any of this matters..but yeah. I've had a crush on him for over a year. I liked him more than my ex boyfriend of 10 months. We told each other we liked each other and all that and...
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In love with an older married man? Does he have feelings for me?
Posted Monday November 29 2010, 7:33 pm
I’m 20 and he’s 34. We’re in a band together where he plays the guitar and I sing. He’s married and has a child and I’m in a serious relationship that has been going on for years.
I just can’t help it, I think there’s something going on between us but I’m never sure. Maybe I’m just infatuated with him but he keeps giving me signals, although it’s possible that I’m just misinterpreting them in my infatuation.
At practice we make eye contact for whole songs and he smiles and my heart just flutters. Every time we look in each others eyes he winks at me and I’m not sure if it’s just a friendly wink or not.
When I sing he says it gives him the fever...
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Do you think I am gay?
Posted Monday November 29 2010, 7:20 pm
Im a girl, and gay kissing turns me on. Am I gay?
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Pregnant with different guy! dont know what to do!
Posted Monday November 29 2010, 6:25 pm
20 f. I am living with my boyfriend that i have been with for 2yrs and we just had a baby in june. We are on and off and have been since i was pregnant, we don't even share the same room, but we keep trying to work things out for our son. . but one of the times we broke up, i had sex with this guy i had been talking to, and we didnt use protection, and now im pregnant. I told my son's dad and he was mad to say the least. . I don't know what to do because our families never knew we broke up to begin with. I deffinetly want to keep the baby, and i told the guy i hooked up with, and it turns out he has someone else pregnant too. Im in a huge mess and the worst part i dont know how i'll face my family, especially my mom, who loves my baby's dad. . please help!
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Looking for love
Posted Monday November 29 2010, 3:32 pm
I need a girl that lives in Waterloo Iowa and goes to Hoover middle school in 7th grade
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confused!!!!!!!!
Posted Monday November 29 2010, 12:59 pm
17/f
so my x and i havent spoke for a few months, our past was quite hectic. at the begining we agreed no sex because i wasnt ready and he seemed fine but after some time we had i fight and broke up... after our break up we were sort of friends but he always gave me false hope and took advantage of the fact that i was ''inlove'' with him because he knew how i felt.. during this time he realisesd that i still wasnt goning to get in bed with him and he started acting funny ,i told him to leave me alone but he somehow kept coming back and we were back to sqaure 1.. until i got really tired of it and told him to leave me alone permently, he smsed a few times but i just ignored him... now i really want to talk to him even if its j...
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Same old story.
Posted Monday November 29 2010, 6:19 am
Hello,
Well there's this guy his like a train he just comes and goes he used to have a girlfriend and all but him and i were always close and no i didn't try breaking them up i never did nor did i really flirt back,however i never msgd him or anything or saw him cause he had a gf so i respected him and her.They broke up and he decided to msg me it was all good until he msgd me one night telling me he didnt want to hurt me and i should avoid him and i said alright,after that i didn't really talk to him much at all.After about 2-3 weeks he told me he liked me and all and i told him i still liked him and everything was good he kept telling me he wouldnt msg me unless i msgd first because its always him so i told him i would so f...
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what goes around comes around?
Posted Monday November 29 2010, 6:04 am
i started dating a guy in june, we dated for 4 months. his ex broke up with him a month before we got together. she just told him she didnt love him anymore.
now he has broken up with me and gone back to her cos she wants him back. i cant help but feel hurt, i will never take him back but i cant help but think what goes around comes around, do you think it will???
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Will I regret it?
Posted Monday November 29 2010, 4:49 am
My ex boyfriend Nick broke up with me last April. I was left completely heartbroken. One day he told me he didn't love me anymore, that I was too moody for him and he ended it. I was SO upset, I did so much for him.
I started hanging out with a guy called Kyle, who I'd met a few months before just as friends. Any way I ended up really falling in love with him. He knew things ended badly with my ex and he was really there for me. We started dating and everything was so great, my parents loved him and his parents loved me and more importantly we both loved each other. More to the point, Kyle started to question being together as the stress we'd both been under (it started effecting our relationship) I didn't give him much time ...
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did he lose interest?
Posted Monday November 29 2010, 12:42 am
17/f
So a friend of mine asked me out last month, and I said yes (He's the drummer in my rock band). Two weeks ago, we were hanging out at his house and he kissed me. As embarassing as this sounds, I got really nervous was kind of... unresponsive. I know that you're supposed to kiss them back, but I honestly didn't know what to do. My mind just blanked out. He said that he could tell I was really nervous.
This past Thanksgiving break he didn't ask me out on a date even though we had the whole week off and I know for a fact that he wasn't busy. He calls me up regularly to talk, but this isn't too different from the way he behaved before we started going out (and he does that with lots of his other frien...
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How do I get this guy to like me?!?
Posted Sunday November 28 2010, 9:50 pm
Okay so I like this guy but I have a bf.. But I don't think it's going anywhere with my boyfriend. I don't really talk to this guy because he's popular. How do I get him to like me?
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The girl who cant say no
Posted Sunday November 28 2010, 4:14 pm
17 f
i have a hard time saying no to guys. even if i have zero interest in the person, i will still act friendly towards them and then they end up thinking that into them. im just a friendly nice person and i dont like hurting guys feelings. idk is there a nice way to let guys down?
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Posted Sunday November 28 2010, 5:00 am
Okay here is the thing..I have a bf tht I really love and have been with for 7 months but my ex bf is now saying he has changed and wants me back. I realize tht a part of me wants to take him back nd just leave my bf, but then I'm scared to cus I dnt want to get hurt again nd then again I dnt wanna leave my bf. What do I do? I miss him nd care about him but I also love my bf. I dnt know how to handle this. I really dnt wanna make the wrong decision. Help?
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is it time to use tounge?
Posted Sunday November 28 2010, 3:27 am
when my boyfriend and i makeout it is just plain. we dont use tounge. its kinda boring. but we will kiss sometimes and he sticks his tounge in my mouth as a joke. we end up laughing after. is he trying to tell me he wants to use tounge?
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What should I say to him?
Posted Sunday November 28 2010, 2:38 am
I need advice. I'm 17-years-old. I've known this guy since I was in grade 7, and we kind of grew up together. We went out for awhile when I was younger, but we both had a lot of problems (family issues, etc). I love him, I would do anything for him, absolutely anything. We started hanging out again about a month ago, and we're really close. I live about 50 km. away from him and he comes up whenever I ask him to. It's a real hassle for him to get up here. He says he's looking for a commitment, and doesn't want another guy to come around a week later when I told him how I feel about him. Probably because that's what all the other girls do to him. There would be absolutely no other guys, I am in absolute love with him, and have been for many y...
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my boyfriend wants "more" to happen..
Posted Sunday November 28 2010, 2:27 am
*i am a 13 year old female and my b/f is 15
ohkay, so my b/f and i have been dating for awhile now. were like everyother couple ya know we hold hands, kiss, and makeout. i dont mind tht he touches me and stuff but he is always calling me prude. it pisses me off. i want us to go to the next level but something in my body just wont let me. what do you think it is? HELP ME!
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