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Love at first sight-ish
A few days ago I met a friend of a friend. I had met him once before but we didn't really talk. This time we talked and I just felt like we connected in such a bizarre way. He asked me personal questions and told me that he admired my personality. We are also very similar because we are sometimes quiet and people see us as very sweet. I spent a few days in his company and felt these deep feelings. I've never connected to someone so quickly. He lives very far away and it's unlikely that we'll ever become close friends. It feels like I'm losing him and it hurts but at the same time I know I'll be fine. Could this be love? Is such a thing possible? Am I just exaggerating?
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this is a really biased question. half the people are gonna say it is love. half the people will say its not. its such a biased question because technically it is an opinion question. people have different opinons. you're pretty much asking us for our opinion on how you feel... which is bizarre because how are we supposed to know how you're feeling, and then interpret that..?
only you can interpret your feelings. we don't know exactly how you feel. you can give us as many details as you want but we can never fully know EXACTLY how you feel...
listen to your heart. if you're drawn to him, stay in contact with him. get to know him better and just go with the flow. does it really matter what you call it right now..? does it make a difference if you say "its love" or "its not love"..?
everything happens for a reason.
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Its probably not love, because love is something that takes a long time to develop... but it does sound special. I don't think you're exaggerating, you're just experiencing a connection you've never felt before. It hurts that you can't spend time with him, but you can enjoy the very special relationship you are developing over Facebook and email and calling. There is a lot to be learned, even if you can't be in the same room together. Continue to keep in contact and enjoy being able to get to know someone special, even if its not exactly how you would like it to be.
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