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Hello,
Well there's this guy his like a train he just comes and goes he used to have a girlfriend and all but him and i were always close and no i didn't try breaking them up i never did nor did i really flirt back,however i never msgd him or anything or saw him cause he had a gf so i respected him and her.They broke up and he decided to msg me it was all good until he msgd me one night telling me he didnt want to hurt me and i should avoid him and i said alright,after that i didn't really talk to him much at all.After about 2-3 weeks he told me he liked me and all and i told him i still liked him and everything was good he kept telling me he wouldnt msg me unless i msgd first because its always him so i told him i would so from then on i started making the effort of msging every day we saw eachother it was all perfect and all and then he whenever we would talk he'd say things like oh i wanted to see you but u didnt ask,he wanted me to start asking him to meet up because it was always him asking so i asked him to meet up the next day which he agreed to though he started being dry towards me a little bit the next day he didnt msg me at all when i msgd he still agreed to meet up but then msgd me 1 hour later telling me he couldnt and he didnt bother anymore i msgd a few times just to see his response he was being dry towards me after 4 days i saw him and he told me he goes back with his ex because that's what happens when people send mixed signals (referring to me) though i don't get how it's my fault i msgd him first like he wanted me too i asked him to meet up like he wanted me to it was him being dry towards me ? and then he asked me if i really didnt care about us not talking anymore?i just didn't respond to him,his ex and him broke up because she seriously treated him likee dirt and she was just rude towards him.family and friends and yet he still got back with him even though 5 days ago he was telling me how she called him and how she was swearing at him and his family.and before he told me he has liked me for ages and everything i dont talk to him anymore now i'm avoding him because he seriously hurt me now i don;t know what to do i really like him and all do you think we'll talk again or is that it it's over and done with... im so confused im so sorry if its long and doesnt make sense it's just so complicated.
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This guy sounds flaky, needy and wishy-washy to me.
So he wants you to be more forthcoming and arrange some conversations and meetings. That's reasonable. What isn't reasonable is to put all of the responsibility on you. That's lazy and just plain rude. If he had wanted to see you so badly, he should have called you.
If anyone is sending mixed signals, it's this guy. He wants you to talk to him, but he's distant and unresponsive. He wants to see you all the time, but he cancels on you. He's projecting his own behaviours onto you in an attempt to make you look like the bad guy. Don't let it work.
You can go ahead and keep talking to him, but he doesn't sound like a quality guy to date. At the first sign of you being disinterested, he ran back to his ex. This doesn't sound like the sort of person you can have a real relationship with.
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