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What should I say to him?
I need advice. I'm 17-years-old. I've known this guy since I was in grade 7, and we kind of grew up together. We went out for awhile when I was younger, but we both had a lot of problems (family issues, etc). I love him, I would do anything for him, absolutely anything. We started hanging out again about a month ago, and we're really close. I live about 50 km. away from him and he comes up whenever I ask him to. It's a real hassle for him to get up here. He says he's looking for a commitment, and doesn't want another guy to come around a week later when I told him how I feel about him. Probably because that's what all the other girls do to him. There would be absolutely no other guys, I am in absolute love with him, and have been for many years. I haven't told him this much yet, and that I want a commitment too. We don't really see each other as just good friends, but probably more as more than friends, if you know what I mean, but it doesn't necessarily involve sex. He's coming over Monday.
What should I say to him? And do you have some tips for opening up to him?
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Be up front with him. Tell him your feelings. He told you he is looking for a commitment, so be honest with him and tell him the same. You also say you love him. If your heart truely belongs to him, go for it. Just be sure that when you give it to him, you will be prepared for everything that goes along with it.
Just be honest, tell him everything, and see how things go from there. Its all you can do. If you wait too long...you might not get a second chance.
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