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Pregnant with different guy! dont know what to do!
20 f. I am living with my boyfriend that i have been with for 2yrs and we just had a baby in june. We are on and off and have been since i was pregnant, we don't even share the same room, but we keep trying to work things out for our son. . but one of the times we broke up, i had sex with this guy i had been talking to, and we didnt use protection, and now im pregnant. I told my son's dad and he was mad to say the least. . I don't know what to do because our families never knew we broke up to begin with. I deffinetly want to keep the baby, and i told the guy i hooked up with, and it turns out he has someone else pregnant too. Im in a huge mess and the worst part i dont know how i'll face my family, especially my mom, who loves my baby's dad. . please help!
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To be completely honest, you probably need to take your baby, find your own place and forget the guys for now. If you are just looking for someone to feel sorry for you and tell you what you want to hear...stop reading now.
If you have been on & off with your guy & don't even sleep in the same room...its all but over anyway. You don't stay in a relationship "for the children". It doesn't work out in the end. Your son will be more hurt when after 10 years of this crap, one of you decides to get a life.
I think you are probably both to immature to be parents, but you are. Its time to grow up. The children come first. The dads can see them on weekends & that's just the way they will have a relationship with their children. Maybe next time they will either use protection or stop sleeping with women they have no intention of having a long term relationship with.
You will put all your concentration on raising 2 children without a father. Dating will be very low on your priority list. Next time you will insist on protection and only have sex with men who are wanting more from a relationship than just sex.
So tell your parents the whole story. Find a new place for you and your children. Get a lawyer and get child support set up from both of the childrens fathers & then stay away from them and other guys until you are able to have a relationship with a more mature guy who doesn't mind taking on a woman and her 2 kids. It won't be easy, but you can do it.
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Abort it or put it up for adoption. Stop trying to totally decimate any semblance of stability in your son's life.
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