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she watches me sleep
Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 12:06 am
okay i love my girlfriend and im 14 and shes 12(bout to be 13) and we get all lovey dovey n all that but she took a pic of me while i was sleeping and when she was tlking to one of our friends and my friend made a joke bout raping me in my sleep (dont ask) and she said no she probably just watch me....is there anything bad that can come from this? or any side effects or something
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Im not happy it been going on so long and I'm crying to much
Posted Tuesday January 18 2011, 10:16 pm
This is my 3 Ed time asking basically the same question ... Well just advice I need it I'm pathetic I'm getting angry with other people including my family. So here the thing me and this guy hung out so much in the summerlike every day but after the group was done our talking kept getting distant. I started to really like him after summer even though I shoulda liked him when I had more of a chance he use to like me but I know hesitant like me anymore.. Bc I heard he's talking with another girl. He made me so happy I was nicer to people and now I'm stressed bc well I'm not happy like I tried so hard to get him back and to get over him it's to a point where it's gone to far. He's a sophmore and I'm a freshman he was in my math class but now ...
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older guy at work likes me
Posted Tuesday January 18 2011, 9:52 pm
im a female andd i turn 17 in two weeks.this guy from my work whos 22 recently told me how much he likes me. which happens to be alot. since i started working with him weve always flirted alot and i just thought of it as flirting and am always constantly reminding myself he doesnt like me im too young etc. but now its much more complicated and my mom would not approve of us dating. he also says i remind him soo much of the first and only girl hes been in love with wouldnt that cause problems for us since im definatly not her?
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i feel like my boyfriend doesn't care as much as he used to
Posted Tuesday January 18 2011, 9:45 pm
i know it sounds so stupid, but the littlist things like facebook are different. he used to always comment on pictures of us or comment on my facebook, but now its like he only comments on his friend's stuff. i try so hard just to get him to leave one fricken comment. i know its ridiculous and everything but it just eats me up. i tag him in so many pictures and he never says a thing about them. but as soon as his friends tag him in a picture with them he'll say something. it just makes me feel like i just annoy him and he just cares about his friends. and yes i talked to him about it. nothing came out of it. just the same thing.
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Feeling a little lonely in the relationship...
Posted Tuesday January 18 2011, 7:28 pm
So, I've been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months now...I'm starting to feel slightly lonesome in the relationship...we laugh and enjoy each others company, but there's practically no affection anymore...he used to be a lot more cuddly and kissed me way more, and now he only hugs me once in a blue moon, practically NEVER cuddles with me in bed anymore and as far as kissing goes, he only gives me a quick peck on the lips whenever we say goodbye. 95% of the time, it seems I'm the one who initiates sex...I know there's the whole "Honeymoon" phase, but I don't think it should disappear COMPLETELY. I know we haven't been dating for very long, but I'm absolutely crazy about him (And no, not the 'desperate, clingly' crazy) and all I...
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A thnk u n now we are doing better =D..or are we ?
Posted Tuesday January 18 2011, 6:43 pm
Last time i asked for advice (maybe you can check on my page what it was or something ) it was about a boy and me not getting his response on my hotmail to me saying I liked him =) four days later i received his response and he had asked me out ( HE was soo cute about it too :3 ) He told me it took him 4 days to find the right words to say :P later his friend told me how nervous he was =D SO FOR THE PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO DON'T TAKE THAT CHANCE , sometimes you gotta or i would have lost him completely eventually . Now we have problems being together... How can we find sometime to hang out and when we do hang out what should we do ? I'm so nervous about it .... =S
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my boyfriend never gets jealous
Posted Tuesday January 18 2011, 5:19 pm
i have a problem. my boyfriend never gets jealous. he only gets jealous rarely like only one time in the summer. i just want him to be jealous of whenever guys talk to me but he never shows it. it makes me feel like im not wanted by him and that he doesn't care. he only gets jealous if im gonna hang out with my girlfriends instead of him but i want him to be jealous of guys and me. how can i make him jealous? a little jealously in a relationship is always good but he just doesn't ever show it. he trusts me thats why he says he never does. but it doesn't make me feel special when he never gets jealous i think its cute if he ever did... :(
what should i do?
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I want to be more to him than just a hookup!
Posted Tuesday January 18 2011, 3:31 pm
So I've been crushing on this guy since my freshman year in high school when he was a senior (I'm a freshman in college now). We're finally talking now and he wants to hangout and like 99% sure he wants to hookup. I don't wanna mess things up though, I want to be more to him then just a hookup but I don't want him to stop talking to me. I've heard from people that he's really sweet. But then again I'm so attracted to him so it might be hard to pull away if he tries to do something. What should i do?
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Scared of loosing him....
Posted Tuesday January 18 2011, 11:33 am
Here's my situation
I recently got into a long distance relationship
with someone who i met online he's 22 i'm 20 his name's Luke we get along great and we've got tons of things in common but here's the catch he's got a friend she's a girl her name's Keke and she's saying things like she wants to marry him & she told me she likes him she thinks were best friends
and aren't dating i'm scared he'll leave me and
end up going to her and i'll be left alone i feel like she's coming between us and i feel left out i
feel like he loves her more then me i really want this to work out between us and i'll be upset if it doesn't i'm unsure of what to do and how to approach this...
Advice please(:
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Should or shouldn't I fight for love
Posted Tuesday January 18 2011, 7:56 am
Should I get in I fight over a girl (love) cause I really like her she likes me and him she will date who ever wins the fight but I dont know how 2 fight I know the blocks how 2 punch etc I just can't hit hard enough
So should i fight?
And how 2 increase punching power I know how to block this fight may be tomorrow so????
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I am afraid to ask him out because of his scary ex
Posted Tuesday January 18 2011, 1:29 am
im a 11 year old female i like this boy but heres the problem like this girl i know went out wit him they had a back n forth relationship shes not goin out with him no more she got antoher boyfriend but im kind of afraid to ask him out because she like so popualr n ghetto i mean if someone make her break a nail she got people to bet them up well the guy brings the best and worst out of me mostly the best we be talkin on the phone until 3 in the morning i ask my frand to ask him wat he think about me he said i was in the middle but he got like mood swings one day he talkin to me the next day hes not hes confusing my frands tell mii not to ask him out because imma get bet up that girl but i really like him and he dont treat me like the other...
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valentines day for a soldier
Posted Monday January 17 2011, 11:49 pm
Hello my husband is in Afghanistan and this is going to be our first valentines day apart. I'm clueless on what i should send him for valentines day. I want to send him something cute and a gift but he's very picky and only really likes certain things. I know im going to send him a card with my perfume on it, a box of chocolates but i think there should be something more but i have no idea what. Any suggestions? Thanks
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Really embarrassing.
Posted Monday January 17 2011, 9:59 pm
Okay so, not the easiest topic to approach, but I figured I'd give it a shot.
I've been having sex with my now-boyfriend (who's 26) for two, going on roughly three months. He's never initiated anything to begin with, and I've always felt so awkward doing it myself. I'm pretty submissive in the bedroom, so this is a new behavior to me.
However, this isn't the core issue. What I feel that is, is a lack of communication/understanding, or just plain out carelessness, in general. Lately our sex life has taken a halt, and when we are intimate it's not much of a session, or any quality/effort coming from his end, to be crass. He has issues with lasting (five minutes is pretty typical - and he asks if I cum quite often...
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ok my question is about mygirlfriend and she doesnt seem into me
Posted Monday January 17 2011, 9:43 pm
ok im looking for adivice. my girlfriend doesnt seem into me! im looking for answer that tells what i should do help as soon as possible. thxn alots bye ima male and 16 helpsssss plssssss
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Tell my dad about my boyfriend?
Posted Monday January 17 2011, 8:36 pm
I was with my boyfriend today and we went to the store to get some snacks, right when i went to get out of the car, my dad pulls up next to us so i put my hood up and my boyfriend drove away. my dad called me over and over so i didn't answer until i got home about 3 minutes later. He texted me saying that i'm lying and that he'll never buy me a car or anything like that. I'm 16, my bf is 17. I think i have the right to do what i want at my age. I live with my mom, so i don't get why he cares what i do when its not his visitation day. Ive been with my bf for 13 months. Should i just tell my dad or should i keep hiding it? I plan on moving in with my dad next month, but now im scared. He said he'll kill any guy who touches me, blah blah blah....
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Why does love have to be so hard
Posted Monday January 17 2011, 5:39 pm
7 months now I have had a really strong long distance relationship. I'm so confused on what to do. We are only in high school and everyone thinks its too young to "Love Someone" but I think they're wrong. However what if we do break up in the future its gonna crush me. Should I just go ahead and do it even though we both love each other. Why does everything have to be so hard... why does love have to be so hard
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Love Someone & Like Someone? Help ):
Posted Monday January 17 2011, 4:09 pm
Okay, so I'm 15. So i expect to get alot of answers about how I don't know what love is and blah blah blah. Please, just skip that. I believe that love is different for everyone, everyone has their own version and their own feeling of love. So please don't tell me I don't know what love is. For me, Love is when you can't go a minute without thinking about him, knowing all about him, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you. Love is when you can't picture yourself with ANYBODY else, an...
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how do i win over his affection?
Posted Monday January 17 2011, 3:08 pm
My boyfriend = 24, will be 25 in April
Me = 19, will be 20 in April
My boyfriend broke up with me today because he said that he feels like I put too much investment in the relationship and he wasn't putting in enough, and I got too emotionally attached to him. I really like this guy, and I know that it sounds lame to want an ex back and these are feelings that I'm going to feel on the same day as our break up anyway. I know that I spent alot of time dwelling on my past relationships and was often insecure. He also didn't want to dick me around by acting like we were the perfect match when we weren't.
We weren't dating for long, only about a month but he was a really great guy. He was definitely the kind ...
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Should I take him back?
Posted Monday January 17 2011, 2:35 pm
Saturday night/ Sunday morning; I recieved a message from my ex on facebook. (we broke up thursday evening) He likes to write to express how he feels, so he wrote me this little poem thing, saying how much he loves me and misses me and how he knows he made a mistake.
I talked to him later on Sunday night. We talked in person. The whole time he was with me, he felt bad. I took advantage of it. We sat in his room, and I told him how bad he hurt me, and I got very detailed with it. He started to cry. He said his intentions were to never hurt me, and all he wants is to be in a realtioship with me, and just be happy. He doesn't understand why he kept having mixed emotions, but they would only last a day, and than go away after he went to ...
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I'm not sure if I like like my friend... Am I falling in love?
Posted Monday January 17 2011, 2:35 pm
I'm in 9th grade and I have this really cool guy friend. We share a lot of similar interests and I can't tell if I like him or LIKE him (you know what I mean). He's really nice and cute, and I could see us together, but at the same time I don't know much about love (I've been single my whole life don't laugh) and I can't tell if I like like him. I don't feel shy around him and we'll talk all lunch period about random nonsense. Am I falling in love with him?
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