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I am afraid to ask him out because of his scary ex


Question Posted Tuesday January 18 2011, 1:29 am

im a 11 year old female i like this boy but heres the problem like this girl i know went out wit him they had a back n forth relationship shes not goin out with him no more she got antoher boyfriend but im kind of afraid to ask him out because she like so popualr n ghetto i mean if someone make her break a nail she got people to bet them up well the guy brings the best and worst out of me mostly the best we be talkin on the phone until 3 in the morning i ask my frand to ask him wat he think about me he said i was in the middle but he got like mood swings one day he talkin to me the next day hes not hes confusing my frands tell mii not to ask him out because imma get bet up that girl but i really like him and he dont treat me like the other gurls he treat me better should i go ahead and just ask him out and not worry bout all tat

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miranda_love answered Tuesday January 18 2011, 3:03 pm:
Your 11 years old you shouldn't even be dating yet and you should be asleep at 3 am. Don't ask the guy out, you don't need any of this drama. The girl could get pissed by you. You shouldn't be getting into any of these problems. Wait till you find another guy who likes you and will ask you out. It will be a lot better for you. Wait until your older to date you won't know what to do in the dating world. Be safe and have fun with your friends! Just be friends with guys until your older.

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orphans answered Tuesday January 18 2011, 6:44 am:
I think you should do what you think is right. Would you be more upset if you got threatened because you went out with him, or would you be more upset not doing anything and thinking "what if". Is the risk of getting abused worth it? Do you really like him that much? Of course not, you're only 11. You could tell someone of authority about threats if they happened, e.g. teachers, parents, but i dont think they would be too happy with you going out with someone at such a young age.

In my opinion, just find another guy. You're too young to be getting in these types of problems, and you should really be asleep by 3am (i feel so old).

So its really up to you, id leave it be. Hope i helped :)

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