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will he know im a virgin?
my boyfriend doesnt know that im really a virgin and sooner or later we are going to have sex. would he be able to tell im a virgin when he has sex with me for the first time? if so is there anyway i could break my own hymen?
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Are you sure you're ready to be in a sexual relationship when you cant approach your significant other over your virginity?
It changes from person to person but usually it does feel uncomfortable to painful, you may bleed, and you may be so tight he can hardly enter you.
Spend as long as possible on foreplay to get you adequately aroused and lubricated (its also a great idea for first times to use extra lubrication).
Go slowly and play it by feel.
Chances are he'll suspect that youre a virgin. Your hymen stretches to acomodate something as large as a penis so it can take several times, and possibly longer to feel the benefits of vaginal penetration.
Your best bet is to be honest. He should respect you and go at a pace that is comfortable for you.
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Being a virgin is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of, If your boyfriend makes a big deal over the fact of whether you are a virgin or not then he is not mature enough to be having sex in the first place nor are you for wanting to intentionally break your own hymen so you can dodge the possibility of him assuming you are.
There is a hell of a lot more to sex then to whether someone already lost their virginity or not.
To answer your question, No there is no way you can tell if someone is a virgin or not. There are many accidental ways woman break their hymen and can easily be broken from something as simple as horse back riding.
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the vaginal opening of a virgin tends to be tighter than that of a non-virgin, obviousely, because she will have various...um...objects entering and exiting it. Your hymen is rather sensitive and can break on its own, through things like horse riding.
Masturbation can help to widen the hole, and break through the hymen. I say you just tell your boyfriend though. You cant lie about things like this, and he will be able to tell for example, if you dont know what you are doing. He wont judge you- if anything, its a good thing: it shows restraint, perceiverance from peer pressure, and can be more pleasurable for the guy. But tell him, if he doesnt like it, its his problem, and he isnt worth it. Hope i helped :)
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