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i feel like my boyfriend doesn't care as much as he used to


Question Posted Tuesday January 18 2011, 9:45 pm

i know it sounds so stupid, but the littlist things like facebook are different. he used to always comment on pictures of us or comment on my facebook, but now its like he only comments on his friend's stuff. i try so hard just to get him to leave one fricken comment. i know its ridiculous and everything but it just eats me up. i tag him in so many pictures and he never says a thing about them. but as soon as his friends tag him in a picture with them he'll say something. it just makes me feel like i just annoy him and he just cares about his friends. and yes i talked to him about it. nothing came out of it. just the same thing.

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itdependsonyoux3 answered Wednesday January 19 2011, 5:25 pm:
honestly, facebook is facebook.
unless hes flirting with girls and stuff on there, you have nothing to worry about.
look at it this way: he probably doesnt want to comment on your pictures because he doesnt want the entire world to be all like, "eww you guys are so lovey dovey" and stuff like that. a lot of boys dont really care so much about the whole commenting thing. I mean, he's already tagged in the pictures, and everyone can see them, so im pretty sure he thinks that his feelings for you show, WITHOUT him constantly writing comments on them.
and the fact that he comments on his friends stuff and not yours is just what guys do. as you guys get more serious, it gets past the stage where the guy tries to be all cute and comment on your stuff..
seriously, dont worry about it. its only facebook.. it doesnt mean he doesnt care about you when he doesnt comment on some of your stuff and youre not annoying him, but trying to get him to comment on your pictures and stuff WILL annoy him.
just let it be, and let him do what he wants. as long as hes faithful to you and shows that he cares about you in person, everythings fine. good luck ! hope i helped, xxo.

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dearcandore answered Wednesday January 19 2011, 11:45 am:
It is stupid. You are being ridiculous. You see your boyfriend outside of FB all the time! He can SAY the things to you that he would normally comment on in FB land. Gosh, when I read the subject line I thought you were going to say something about how he won't touch you anymore or call you or doesn't want to be around you. He doesn't comment on FB pictures?! Honey, FB is a website. You should be more worried about what he does when you're together than what he says on a computer. Get over it and go apologize to him for being so petty. I'm sure he would appreciate it.

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