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Scared of loosing him....
Here's my situation
I recently got into a long distance relationship
with someone who i met online he's 22 i'm 20 his name's Luke we get along great and we've got tons of things in common but here's the catch he's got a friend she's a girl her name's Keke and she's saying things like she wants to marry him & she told me she likes him she thinks were best friends
and aren't dating i'm scared he'll leave me and
end up going to her and i'll be left alone i feel like she's coming between us and i feel left out i
feel like he loves her more then me i really want this to work out between us and i'll be upset if it doesn't i'm unsure of what to do and how to approach this...
Advice please(:
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I won't sugar coat this. Long distance relationships rarely work out. How often do you see this guy? I don't mean "online", I mean in the real world?
If this female friend of his is such a "good friend" he would have told her everything about you by now. He obviously hasn't. Probably for good reason.
Unless she is a total kook, she has the idea that she will be marrying this guy. That means that YOU
may possibly be the one coming between a couple, not the other way around.
Follow your gut instinct. Find someone who you can actually see often and date properly. There are just to many ways to be a liar on the net.
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If you and this guy are in an exclusive relationship why doesn't his friend know? Long distance relationships are hard enough without having to wonder if your boyfriend is only into you or not. I would just bite the bullet and confront him with the issue. Ask him if he likes the girl as more than a friend or not. If he says yes I would just go ahead and end the relationship. It is better to end things early and be upset sooner, than to be more invested in he relationship then you already are and get hurt more later. If he says he isn't then let him know you are going to tell his friend that you are in a relationship, or that he needs to tell her. If he isn't okay with then he is hiding things from you and once again you just need to end it. I know it's not fun but confrontation is the only way to solve this problem for good.
Good Luck
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Ahhh you have to know how he feels about her and you. Observe his actions with you and her. If he chooses her then you have to move on. But if he chooses you then great! You should probably talk to the girl and ask her whats going on and just be friends. But don't like the girl you can hate her all you want. If he's in a relationship with you like he says he is he shouldn't leave you for her and if you trust him not too. He and her could just be really good friends. Or she could just like him and he doesn't have any interest in her at all. Just make sure he likes you and if you have proof that he likes her then leave him. You don't want him to leave you first because it will hurt you more.
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