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Love Someone & Like Someone? Help ):
Okay, so I'm 15. So i expect to get alot of answers about how I don't know what love is and blah blah blah. Please, just skip that. I believe that love is different for everyone, everyone has their own version and their own feeling of love. So please don't tell me I don't know what love is. For me, Love is when you can't go a minute without thinking about him, knowing all about him, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you. Love is when you can't picture yourself with ANYBODY else, and you're willing to forgive them for anything, because you really want things to work. Anyhow;
I have this boyfriend, we've been dating for a little more than 5 months, and we waited a year before dating. We live about 45 minutes away. And his mom is completely over protective and untrusting and definitely doesn't let him come see me or even go on dates with me until he turns 16. (July) So we only saw each other once every two weeks at church. (He goes to my grandma's church and that's how we saw each other =/ ) Well almost two months ago, his mom got mad at him and didn't like the idea of him having a girlfriend, so she switched churches so he couldn't see me anymore.. So we talk on the phone for about an hour every night, and we text. He's been having issues at home with his parents, as have I. And we just haven't been getting along with each other, we've been fighting like crrrazyy. Last night, i broke up with him. and I told him i still like him and if he still really wants to be with me then we can talk about it in a month or two, because really just really need a break. But then this guy from my school, who's reeeally cute. started texting me and I got to know him (a little before me and my boyfriend broke up) and he seems really cool, and he likes me.. andd yeah.
But my (ex) boyfriend he makes me feel like nooo other guy has. He's super sweet and he promises he'll stay with me through anything he was talking to his youth leader from his wednesday night church about us, and his youth leader said that he thinks I'm his first love. And he always tells me that he would do anything for me, and i think i would do anything for him. And I want to be with him, and I can see myself with him. ANd I couldnt see myself with annyyyoone else.. until we started having trouble and this other guy came along. So what do I do? Is it possible to love someone and start to have feelings for another guy? Are my feelings for another guy just.. like, fake? oor..?
--in Need of Help ):
thanks..(:
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It's normal to have feelings for more than one person. For instance, I love my fiance to pieces and wouldn't want to be with anyone else, but I still love my first boyfriend even though we've been apart for years now.
You're not with your boyfriend now for a reason. Things just weren't working for you at the moment. Explore your feelings about this other guy, and see where they lead you. You may find that it's a dead end, and that you really want to be with your ex, and you're willing to do what it takes. This is a time for you to figure out exactly what you want and what you're willing to do for it.
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I believe if you love someone than you shouldnt be having feelings for someone else. i also believe you may not know if you love this first guy because you really havent go a chance to know this person in person other than church. you havent been able to be alone with him and get to know the real him a lot of people change once you really get know who they are. I think you could be crushing on guy number 2 and i think you should get to know him. you are single.
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