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my boyfriend never gets jealous
i have a problem. my boyfriend never gets jealous. he only gets jealous rarely like only one time in the summer. i just want him to be jealous of whenever guys talk to me but he never shows it. it makes me feel like im not wanted by him and that he doesn't care. he only gets jealous if im gonna hang out with my girlfriends instead of him but i want him to be jealous of guys and me. how can i make him jealous? a little jealously in a relationship is always good but he just doesn't ever show it. he trusts me thats why he says he never does. but it doesn't make me feel special when he never gets jealous i think its cute if he ever did... :(
what should i do?
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If you want your boyfriend to become jealous of the fact when you talk to other guys then you've got the wrong idea about relationships. Did you ever think that maybe your boyfriend doesn't get jealous because he trust you? This could be why he doesn't get jealous!
Jealously is a very bad thing for a relationships, It isn't healthy and overtime it causes lack of trust and puts stress on the relationships. If you don't feel wanted by your boyfriend because he doesn't show signs of jealously then you really order to reevaluate what a relationships means to you. It is not fair to jump to that accusation just because your boyfriend is doing what a boyfriend is supposed to do by putting his trust into your relationship. Don't assume he doesn't care, You will push him away.
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Jealousy is not healthy in a relationship!
You should be extremely flattered. His lack of jealousy means that he is secure in your relationship. It means that he knows you're his, and that he trusts that you're not going to go running off with these other guys.
Jealousy isn't cute. I have experienced boyfriends' jealousy first-hand, having a lot of male friends. It's harmful to a relationship and puts a lot of stress on both partners.
Be glad that your boyfriend is trusting and mature enough to see that there's no reason to be jealous. The fact that he isn't jealous means he thinks you're special!
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