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I want to be more to him than just a hookup!


Question Posted Tuesday January 18 2011, 3:31 pm

So I've been crushing on this guy since my freshman year in high school when he was a senior (I'm a freshman in college now). We're finally talking now and he wants to hangout and like 99% sure he wants to hookup. I don't wanna mess things up though, I want to be more to him then just a hookup but I don't want him to stop talking to me. I've heard from people that he's really sweet. But then again I'm so attracted to him so it might be hard to pull away if he tries to do something. What should i do?

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dearcandore answered Tuesday January 18 2011, 9:43 pm:
This is an easy one. Don't hook up. If you want to be a sex object, have sex with him. If you want him to get to know you then hang out with him and make it known (through actions and attitude, not necessarily words) that you respect yourself too much to be used. If you want to be seen as different from the other girls, you have to act different. Good luck.

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