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my crush likes my best friend...I need HELP.


Posted Sunday February 23 2014, 9:53 pm

My name is Courtney,and i'm 17 years old. So, I can't seem to get over my crush that i've had for a while. I got this crush when I met him in my schools drama program. I have completely fallen for him, and I know for a fact that he likes my best friend (basically my sister). He gave her a chocolate rose on Valentines Day, and wants to go to prom with her. It totally breaks my heart.
I am so frustrated because we are actually friends, and even worse, WE PLAY A COUPLE IN THE PLAY. every time I try to shake off the crush, we do something adorable in the play and I fall right back into it again. I don't know what to do about this whole situation and I have no one to talk to.

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Moving: Is there anything I can do to prevent moving again?


Posted Sunday February 23 2014, 1:53 pm

I am 13 years old and currently live in Pennsylvania. My family and I have moved 11 times and soon we will be moving to New Jersey. This is the longest we've ever lived in one place (3 years) so I've actually made some real friends, a boyfriend, joined some clubs, etc. Before I didn't care if we moved or not because I was little and we never lived in one place long enough for me to make friends. I really don't want to leave behind what I've built her and go to New Jersey. We are moving because of my father's job, so if we want income we have to move. Is there anything I can do to prevent the move and get my father to work here in Pennsylvania? If not, how can I adjust?


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Lapband, is it worth getting to remain happy??


Posted Sunday February 23 2014, 8:44 am

I am a 35 year old overweight woman. My guy of 2 years doesn't like fat girls, AT ALL, so i sent him a fake picture at the beginning. I recently sent him a real pic of me, and he broke up with me. I am so in love with this man, and i don't want to lose what we have. I really need to get healthy anyways, so i am thinking about getting the Lapband surgery. It will basically be for health reasons, but it mostly will be to stay happy n keep my relationship alive. I am tired of being alone. My brother says considering that he is locked up, and i was willing to accept that stipulation, that he should be open to continue to love me the same, cause weight is something that can be easily fixed n should not be a deal breaker. SHOULD I DO THIS TO REMAIN HAPPY??

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Should i accept these terms just to be happy??


Posted Sunday February 23 2014, 8:35 am

Ok. I am a 35 year old women. I met my guy online in the summer of 2012. I then found out he was incarcerated. I wasn't proud of how i looked, so i sent him a pic of someone else. We connected like i have NEVER connected with anyone. Well, last month i decided to stop the charade, sent him a real pic of me, n told him what i did n why i did it. He then proceeded to break up with me, stating that i knew how he felt about fat girls, n basically in so many words said that if i didn't lose the weight he couldn't be with me, but i feel that if i can accept him in his current situation, n its a biggy, then why wouldn't he accept me in my current situation, help me improve, and continue to love me the same(like that guy did on that movie Why did i get married)?? SHOULD I ACCEPT HIS TERMS??


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It happened again...


Posted Sunday February 23 2014, 7:31 am

I have cut for a long time. I had a two week clean and then after my boyfriend broke up with me over wanting to relapse ( we dated two months not long but still)he is saying tht he contributes to my depression. He also cuts and had been clean for three weeks, or so he says. If I can't keep someone as messed up as him why bother? This was out if the blue, everything was going fabulous and then one day I was asking for help because he stopped and I thought he cared, and he started saying how he's sick of this. And now he hates me.he won't talk to me. Out of desperation and depression yesterday I broke my clean in an extreme way, and nearly bled out I nearly passed out and it left these awful gaps in my skin that break open. They were horribly...

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Liking a Highschool Guy


Posted Sunday February 23 2014, 1:56 am

8th grade/f

So there this really cute (in my opinion anyway) guy on a sports team that I go to for school (our middle school and the local highschool practice together for diving/swimming). Problem is, He's a sophmore, and he may/may not have a girlfriend. Here are a few minor signs that he may like me, in chronological order:
1. When we first met last year- for the same sport -he and another guy were asking me and a friend what grade we were in. They guessed 8th and we laughed, responding with the fact that we were in 7th. They both said, each of them referring to one of us, but the one I like was looking at me, that they wished that we were in 8th so that they could be with {hang out with} us 'next' year.
2. A...

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PROM ADVICE


Posted Saturday February 22 2014, 11:46 pm

So I'm a girl bringing another girl to prom and I need to know some things
1.We're both wearing a dress. Mine is probably going to be yellow so should she get a dress that compliments mine or is it not a big deal?
2. She's older so she obviously doesn't want to spend a lot on a dress. If she gets a cheap but nice looking cocktail dress would she stick out too much? (My dress isn't going to be extravagant anyways)
3. I get her a corsage, but do I also get one for myself? And how do I know what corsage to choose?
4. Is there usually a coat check at prom? I don't wanna carry a cluth and phone everywhere

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Is this obsession not normal?


Posted Saturday February 22 2014, 11:08 pm

I've always been a health freak. I feel like I need to count every calorie that I take in and then workout everyday and figure out how much I burn. I eat the same low calorie foods over and over and don't get me wrong, I'm not anorexic. (I'm 5'3" 120 lbs) with alot of lean muscle, however I feel as if I'm a little too obsessed with gaining weight-fat in particular. But I can't take it anymore, I feel like I can't go out for drinks with friends becausee of all the calories or I have to be super careful what I order at dinner not to exceed my calorie count but it's driving me crazy using the my calorie counter 24/7 when I should be enjoying myself. I am young. So I wanted is anyone else like this or do I have a problem?

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Weird hole with black dot in my leg?


Posted Saturday February 22 2014, 10:52 pm

So I have a small hole in my skin and it has a black dot in it. It seems to be kind of solidish and it's really creeping me out. Please help. It might just be skin but I'm not too sure. It has happened before and is always on my legs.

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Coming out to my parents


Posted Saturday February 22 2014, 8:08 pm

So, my mother and father are both homophobes, which sucks seeing as though I have the keenest interest in girls. I am 17 years old, and live with both parents. I am unsure of how to come out to them, and would love some advice. Thanks, xx.

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Is their a perfect ten girl?


Posted Saturday February 22 2014, 6:45 pm

Why do people say there is no perfect ten person. I know a lot of guys who say that Im a perfect ten behind my back. And these guys are not at all alike. Its really weird because I don't that much effort in my appearance. So is their a perfect ten guy or girl society holds to that status?

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how to get over a break-up


Posted Saturday February 22 2014, 3:43 pm

hi, my boyfriend broke up with me over still wanting to cut after a two week clean and asking for his help after he stopped cutting. Appparently I am a liar and he considers himself a major part of my depressio. He is ignoring me, and he did this two days ago and has said some really mean things when he decided to text me in the middle of the night and again this morning. Hes still talking to my friends like normal but is obviously distressed, as he keeps texting me and he wouldnt talk to anyone most of that day at school and he lashed out a lot... he does that when hes sad. He says when i cut it hurts me, and when he stopped cutting for me I was so proud and tried to stop for him. is that a reasoanble reason to break up with someone? He se...

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Can thinking about being pregnant cause you to have pregnancy symptoms?


Posted Saturday February 22 2014, 1:19 pm

Hello. I have had sex with my blyfriend before and i thought that i was pregnant. So i looked up symptoms of pregnancy and theni started feeling them. Could stress cause this to happen .

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Benzoyl peroxide for acne makes my face red


Posted Saturday February 22 2014, 11:40 am

I have acne and ive tried a couple of products but the only thing that makes a change is benzoyl peroxide.ive been using it for 2 months.the problem is that my face gets red and sometimes itchy,there are times when its just a little red and then other times its suoer red and it looks aqful like im sunburnt.but it helps me with my acne so i keep using it.i put it on every morning and night.should i stop? and i know that youd say that if my face turns red and itches it means its not for me but its been doing wonders for my acne,its much less.i really dont know what to do :/

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am i pregnant!?


Posted Saturday February 22 2014, 10:15 am

Hello. Well my boyfriend and i had sex. He didnt pre-cum in me and i havent poped my cherri yet. Is there a good chance im pregnant? I just need some help!!!!! my period isnt due till next week so im wondering if i should he worried

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Pregnancy: No periods after many negative pregnancy tests?


Posted Saturday February 22 2014, 2:30 am

i am a virgin 19 yrs old . i had anal sex with my boyfriend 4 months back . i took an emergency contraceptive pill just to make sure i dnt get pregnant. and i got my periods on time for that month... but from the next month i dint get my periods till now ...so its been 3 months since i got my periods . in these 3 months i had anal sex twice but i was sure that it wont cause any pregnancy as my bf dint ejaculate anywhere near to my pussy so i dint use ipill .. but i am not getting periods.. i did pregnancy test many times but the result was always negative ... now can u please tell me why i am not Getting my periods even when the test is negative ?? and are there any chances of me being pregnant now ? how many days will a sperm be alive ...

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Feeling Unloved


Posted Saturday February 22 2014, 1:24 am

14/f

I'm skinny, have short blonde hair, and very slightly tanned white skin. I try very hard to look nice; I wear make-up ( little to no mascara, light concealer, and a clear lipgloss, usually.), clean, nice clothes, and my hair is healthy, and 'cute', but people call me lesbian because of it. I get constantly shamed because people can see my make-up line (ex: today a girl laughed aloud and pointed at my face saying, "haha it's like one skin tone,and then another one". People also say things about my eyes, whose colors are very pretty, but they are.. "buggy". Yesterday a boy pointed at me and said, "hey it looks like your eyes are buldging out of your head haha". I tried really hard not to cry. ...

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What are some good swimming games to play in a group/class of 26 people?


Posted Saturday February 22 2014, 12:43 am

What are some good games to play in a pool with about 26 people. Boys and girls. Age 13-14

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Applied at the same store, different departments, different malls?


Posted Friday February 21 2014, 5:14 pm

20/f

Hello, I am feeling conflicted right now.

Let's just say, "mall #1, with department #1" and "mall #2, with department #2."

I got an interview with Nordstrom at mall #1. I passed my phone interview and the recruiter told me they would like me to come in for a face-face interview. They had to find out when the department manager was available and said they will call me back the next day, and if they don't call, to call them. The next day, they didn't call, and I did what they said, I called. Nobody answered so I left a message, my name, and my number.

I looked online and found out that department #2 was available in mall #2. I got so excited because I heard t...

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cross dressing help binding breasts


Posted Friday February 21 2014, 2:20 pm

im 16 and am cross dressing for the first time..i need help binding im 5'3 and busty how do i keep them down?

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