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He knows it was hurtful but said it anyway.
Posted Tuesday March 22 2011, 4:39 pm
I texted my boyfriend asking him how the bus was, and he said, "It's cool. Looking at other girls breasts. They're pulling them out of their shirts." My sensitive side took over. I instantly got upset. I am a very sensitive person, and he knows it. We've been dating for three months now and I know I shouldn't take his playful attitude so seriously, but he went too far. He knows I am insecure and emotional and easily upset but he says those types of hurtful things that make me want to cry.
In a way I know I should accept his teasing and quirky jokes, but my emotional side takes over me. I told him I don't like how he jokes like that and he needs to stop. I don't know what to do. I'm happy with him and I don't want to lose him because of my paranoid mind. Help?
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fighting with boyfriend
Posted Tuesday March 22 2011, 4:00 pm
I'll try not to make this too long, because I hate reading questions that ramble on and on.
My boyfriend and I have been going out for over 9 months. He's my first boyfriend, my first everything basically. We've had fights but nothing too serious, and we've never gone on a break or anything.
But lately it's been too much to handle. We are seniors and obviously graduation is coming soon, which stresses everyone out. My bf is extra stressed because he has to work to pay for prom costs and on top of it his family is moving 4 hours away from here in the summer. As all of this is coming closer and closer, he gets more irritable and argumentative.
I feel like once a week he has a 'freak out' moment an...
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Going away to college...
Posted Tuesday March 22 2011, 3:34 pm
This may be long... I'm 20. My boyfriend is 24. We've dated for about 3 years. He's done the college thing and has graduated. I've been at a local college so we've been able to stay together...but in a few months I'll be going away for my other 2 years of college. We've discussed the fact that it will be best that we break up when I go away. He doesn't want me to miss out on the college experience and being single, and honestly I don't either. But we agreed on staying together until then through the summer.
Last night he broke up with me. It was completely unexpected. This sounds selfish, but I thought that if anyone would bring up breaking up it would be me. It took a lot for him to do it and I know how much it hurt him. Ba...
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boyfriend and friend
Posted Tuesday March 22 2011, 3:33 pm
So i've been dating this guy for about 4 months now. He's very sweet to me, unlike any guy i've ever dated. He and I both work together. So does my bestfriend marie. I'm not usually they type to get jealous but i kinda am in this situation. I always see them talking in the store that we work in, whenever it's us three standing there it just seems like he talks to her more than me. I could be over thinking it but im not sure. He has a very friendly personality and i know that he dosen't mean anything by it but sometimes i just feel like he is flirting. I just feel left out sometimes in the situation. I've joked with him about liking her before just to see what he would say and he always says he dosen't like her or even find her attractive. H...
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Falling for my best friend
Posted Tuesday March 22 2011, 3:05 pm
Alright, sooo I think I might be falling for my best friend. I don't even know it that's how I feel (I never really do) but that's where it seems to be going. The thing is, I promised myself I would try my hardest not to feel that way towards somebody until I'm out of high school (I'm 16, junior in high school). I've almost always had crushes on guys, pretty consistently since the fifth grade. The feelings have pretty much never been reciprocated (apart from two instances but I don't even count them) and it just adds too much unneeded stress and emotion to feel that way towards somebody. High school relationships are sort of pointless in my opinion. But anyways... another thing, we've been best friend for almost five years. I don't get why ...
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how to get him to trust me after I cheated on him
Posted Tuesday March 22 2011, 6:56 am
i've been going out with my boyfriend for eight months and he recently found out that i cheated on him i know that was wrong and i feel really bad about it but he forgave me for it and were together but now it's like he can't trust me and he said we should forget about it but everytime we have a fight he brings this up how do i get him to trust me again and prove to him that i love him?
i'm 17/f and he's 19/m
thanks guys
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Is he into me? Mixed signals.
Posted Tuesday March 22 2011, 5:39 am
20/F
I met this guy, Sean, at a party around October of last year. We have a lot of mutual friends and one day, ended up sitting by each other at a basketball game. It was a lot of fun and we talked and danced the whole time. All of our friends kept saying we looked cute together and that we should date. Of course, I hardly knew the kid so I just rolled my eyes. We didn't talk much again, only when we saw each other at basketball games we would say hello.
Randomly this semester, I ran into him at another party. He was really drunk and I had been drinking as well, so we talked and I flirted with him--a lot. The next weekend, I saw him again and we figured out we had a class together so we decided to sit next to ...
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Just cause I'm small, doesn't make me helpless right??
Posted Monday March 21 2011, 9:54 pm
So I'm sixteen, a girl, and I'm 5'4, 105 pounds. I've accepted that I'm small. I'm not really that strong either. My legs are well defined, and have always been fine. My arms... yeah. Not so much. Pretty much pathetic. My boyfriend is convinced that if I were ever to be in a situation where I need to defend myself, that I would basicallly be helpless. Just cause I'm not strong. But that's not true! I took loooots of classes, so I know a lot of self defense teqniques. If someone were to grab me or something, I could probably get out of a hold fairly well. I'm also very good at squirming! Haha. But seriously. It's a little condescending to me that he thinks so little of my ability to protect myself. It's not that he goes around telling me how...
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ex called me the name of his current girlfriend
Posted Monday March 21 2011, 7:53 pm
Today, my ex boyfriend called me the name of his current girlfriend. And for some reason this made me FURIOUS... why...?? I honestly don't know why I got so mad... Maybe cause he and I dated for a longggg time, and they're fairly recent and I think she's a whore and not good enough for him? Or maybe cause I obviously still have feelings for him... Hahaha yeah I really don't know why I got so mad. Has any one had the same experience? It happened in study hall, and he was trying to crack his knuckle in my ear and I tried to run away from him cause it grosses me out and he grabs my wrist and goes "(her name)!"
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PLEASE help me sort through all of these feelings!
Posted Monday March 21 2011, 7:48 pm
There's this guy. He's basically my best friend, and though he's told me before: "I see you as a sister, not a girl I'd ever date... but we can fuck sometime:)" (Ok, I know what you're thinking, but he's not a douche! haha, the whole "screwing thing", that's just how we joke around with eachother). we still text/call every single day and flirt and hang out and what not... I can't help but to fall for the guy that's always there for me, supporting me, making me laugh, protecting me... And I know he doesn't like any other girls. Except for this one girl... We were playing the "questions game" and he asked me if I had to date someone, who would it be. But I said "I don't wanna answer that. what would you say?...
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How do I show him how much he means to me?
Posted Monday March 21 2011, 6:39 pm
I'm fifteen. I am in a great relationship with one of the most amazing guys I have ever known. We have been dating for about three months now, and I am so happy. This relationship is trusting and open, and it's just a wonderful thing to be in a relationship without fear of loving again. Anyway, I usually write him little love notes, and he really likes when I do that. But I really want to show him how much I love and appreciate him. He buys me gifts and treats me like I'm the world, and I really want to show my gratitude to him another way besides notes and material things. What do you suggest?
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Why he is making this so awkward?
Posted Monday March 21 2011, 6:37 pm
20female Shaun-18
So this weekend me and my friend went out of town to go see our friend Nick play hockey. I put a status on facebook up saying we were going there and then when we get there i get a call from this kid Cory. Turned out that Cory, Paul, and Shaun (Nick's friends) were all up there too watching him, me and my friend also know these boys. So they came to our hotel before Nicks game and then after they all came back to our hotel room and stayed the night. Well in our bed it was my friend me and then Shaun. We didn't try going to bed until like 3 in the morning. Well Paul was acting really strange and was basically freaking me and my friend out (thats another story) so as we were laying down in the bed i got really...
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Risk of STDs from oral sex
Posted Monday March 21 2011, 3:01 pm
Hello I am a 16 year old boy and I have been dating my girlfriend for about a month now. I know from a story I heard from her(when we were not dating) that she has had oral sex with a boy she met in Europe. Should I bet worried about STIs if I choose to have oral sex with her...or even making out do I need to be worried?
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hurtfull lies
Posted Monday March 21 2011, 5:58 am
my boyfriend.. lies bad. just about everything,and he lies about uu
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does he like me or am i just imagining it?
Posted Monday March 21 2011, 12:09 am
16/f. we go to the same school, same classes. He's kind of shy. a lot of mutual friends. I like him a lot.
friday:
~in the morning he hugged me and put his hands tight around my waist and as i was pulling away he kept his hands on my sides and we were just kind of looking at each other for a while.
~he asked for my number because he said he wanted to talk more
~he followed me and took one of our mutual friend's chair so we can watch a movie together and when a pretty girl came on in the movie most of the guys were talking about how sexy she was and stuff and he looked at me and said he personally thought she was ugly. i thought it was cute haha
~while i was with a group of friends during a class he asked m...
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Cut him off now that he has a girlfriend or should I keep having sex with him?
Posted Sunday March 20 2011, 5:38 pm
okay so I'm 17/ female
soo me and my ex have been talking for a long time we broke up last summer but we still talk as if we go out even when he has a girlfriend he still messes around with me.. which i think is wrong he has put me through hell and back in it again but its like i fell in love with him so i cant leave him alone we almost had sex last week but i got really scared i dont know if i should have sex with him because i dont want him to have everything. its really confusing should i just cut him off and not talk to him anymore? it might be kind of akward tho? i dont want any of his girlfriends coming up to me and asking me have i been messing with their man shaking my head what do i do ?
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what do you do when you love two people?
Posted Sunday March 20 2011, 5:35 pm
okay so I'm in love with two guys !!!!
I'm 17/ female.
I went out with this guy named James last year and me and him mess around a little bit .. after we broke up i met this amazing guy named Daniel <33 he"S the sweetest thing in the world he says all the right things and is just amazing he knows how to treat a girl and i can picture myself being with him forever i love him with all of my heart <333 well one day he left he moved and its really hard to keep in touch with him why would he leave me if he loves me :( he the perfect boyfriend he perfect for me . and he still loves me i know this because he tells me . BUT ever since he left i began going back to james and everything has been going down hill i even wanted ...
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I love him.Does he love me?
Posted Sunday March 20 2011, 5:28 pm
okay so I'm a 18/female
so I'm talking to a boy named Dametrious <3 we dated last year but then broke up (personal reasons)after 6 months we were always on and off cause we had alot of problems. he's 16 we mess around all the time its crazy. i love him so much but he can't seem to see that i want to know if theres still hope between us i tell him i love him and he says me too but im not sure if he's being serious I don't know what to do we been messing around for a year and a couple months AND he's had 2 girlfriends and while he was with those girls he was playing them with me but he lied to me and told me that he didnt have a girlfriend but he did. that kind of makes me want to second guess our relationship because i dont no if ...
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pressured to have sex? Not ready, how do I handle him
Posted Sunday March 20 2011, 10:39 am
I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months. We're both 22 and have a lot in common, and the beginning looks promissing for a successful long term relationship. The compatibility, his behavior, his mix of almost everything I want from a man, him finding what a lot of what he looks for in a woman with me... Though early, it seems like this could potentially blossom with time into something beautiful. So far, we bring out the best in each other, we push each other to do better, and we function like a team in many aspects. I honestly think this relationship makes both of us happier and better persons.
We haven't had sex yet, though we got to the stage of doing everything else, including sleeping together in the same bed without...
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this is doing my head in.
Posted Sunday March 20 2011, 8:49 am
im 18/f hes 19/m
Last night i went out to a club to see one of my favourite bands, i had organised to meet up with a guy thats my best friend, that i also have very very strong feelings for. He says he likes someone but i'm too afraid to ask who...so anyways as i was catching the train on the way there he texted me saying his phones about to die, and to text me where ill be at all times through the night so he could try and see me. I texted him the details, then he said he probably wont be able to get into the club due to the amount of people attending to see the band playing, and that the tickets would run out by the time he got there. He then turned his phone off saying he'll only use it for emergency incase something happ...
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