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Cut him off now that he has a girlfriend or should I keep having sex with him?
okay so I'm 17/ female
soo me and my ex have been talking for a long time we broke up last summer but we still talk as if we go out even when he has a girlfriend he still messes around with me.. which i think is wrong he has put me through hell and back in it again but its like i fell in love with him so i cant leave him alone we almost had sex last week but i got really scared i dont know if i should have sex with him because i dont want him to have everything. its really confusing should i just cut him off and not talk to him anymore? it might be kind of akward tho? i dont want any of his girlfriends coming up to me and asking me have i been messing with their man shaking my head what do i do ?
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I know he is your ex so the bound will still be there but darling you have to seat back and think of reasons why you call him your ex, there most be a reason why you broke up and if you two can not see past those reasons and get back together then it doesn't make sense you two having sex or messing around with each other, At the moment you are making it ok for him to have his cake and eat it and believing me he is quiet happy receiving the best part of both worlds, he will never complain but you have to know what you want, would you rather let a man who is sharing his love with someone else mess about with you or will you rather have a man who loves you and wouldn't share you with anyone else or mess about with you?
If still being friends with him will lead you to having sex or mess about with him, then i suggest you keep your distance until you are fully out of love with him. Give someone else who will love and respect you a chance or find a positive hobby you enjoy, get on that to get your mind off this guy: know that if he has a girlfriend and is messing about with you, he will do the same behind your back should you get back together, so move on hun.
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No. Don't have sex with him first off if he has sex with you he would be cheating oh his girlfriend and do you want to be known as the girl who broke his girlfriend's heart? second of all you are to young for the consquences of sex you are still in school if you got pregnant how would you raise a baby?
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He wants his cake and eat it too = He has his girlfriend and you.
You need to cut him off and not talk to him anymore. It will be hard at first but it's what right! He can't have both of you. Don't be around him anymore your wasting your time with your ex when he's with another girl. What does that say? It's pretty much like he's using you if his girlfriend gets boring, they get in fights or just so he can feel better about himself. Don't let him treat you like this. He can't keep you no more. You both are ex's. You need to back off and let him and his girlfriend have a relationship. Because this guy's head isn't in the best place right now.
Be interested in other guys. Find someone who you like. So that you can start getting in a relationship with someone more mature then your ex and so you can have a real relationship. You want to be happy with someone who you can just be with him. Once your ex notices you left he might pull you back. But listen to me he had a chance to get back with you and he chose another girl. His loss not yours :)
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you need to stop messing around with him.
cheating is the worst thing anyone can do. what you should do is have a talk with his girlfriend and tell her what you two have been doing.
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You stop messing around with him, He is in a relationship. If you two were messing around, Then no it's not just wrong on his part it's wrong on both ends.
Guess what, He is in a relationship and he has moved on, If you two keep messing around then eventually the drama will catch up too you. If he is in a relationship and he is fooling around with you, It's cheating, It's wrong, It's unfaithful. Last summer was almost a year ago, Move on and stop being his booty call. Your ex boyfriend is not in love with you, The only reason he kept you around is because you give him what he wants.
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