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boyfriend and friend
So i've been dating this guy for about 4 months now. He's very sweet to me, unlike any guy i've ever dated. He and I both work together. So does my bestfriend marie. I'm not usually they type to get jealous but i kinda am in this situation. I always see them talking in the store that we work in, whenever it's us three standing there it just seems like he talks to her more than me. I could be over thinking it but im not sure. He has a very friendly personality and i know that he dosen't mean anything by it but sometimes i just feel like he is flirting. I just feel left out sometimes in the situation. I've joked with him about liking her before just to see what he would say and he always says he dosen't like her or even find her attractive. He "likes" almost everything she posts on facebook, and i dont know, maybe im over reacting? Someone please let me know what you think.
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i dont think your over reacting it normal for you to feel this way maybe your starting to develope deep feelings toward your boyfriend and thats why you may be acting the way you are. BUT i dont think that he would do anything to hurt you maybe he jus wants to be close friends with this girl. I"m sure he doesnt mean for it to come off as him flirting with her they just might have alot in common and maybe he can talk to her about things that he couldnt talk about to you know what I"m saying?
well i hope i helped just keep your head up :)
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I think that if he said he doesn't like her, he doesn't like her. If he did he probly wouldn't admit it or he would ponder the subject when you brought it up. He knew his answer and therefore he was sure. Maybe him and your friend just have more things they can talk about with eachother. Its boring at work sometimes if you don't have anyone to talk to.
Find something you and him have in common and try to make a good conversation off that topic. If you feel left out, mention "hey, I like that too" or "thats cool". Try to contribute to the conversation no matter what. Once you join in, he will talk to you just as much. As for Facebook; him liking her status doesn't mean that he likes her at all. He probably just likes what she is saying. Guys can always come off as flirts, even if they aren't meaning to (not saying there aren't any though). I don't think you are overreacting, I think you are interested in him :) Just try to talk to him by complimenting him or ask him if he would like to hang out sometime. Once you get involved, you will be involved <3
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