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He is still deciding because I'm "depressing."
Posted Tuesday March 29 2011, 8:23 pm
My boyfriend and I broke up but he wants to get back together. He's still making his decision because he's the type of person that has to think hard about decisions.
He said there are still reasons why he hasn't decided yet. Supposedly I'm still a little depressing sometimes. I am a very emotional person and a little bit pessimistic. When we established this relationship, he and I said we'd work on it together, and I say I have gotten better with my negativity. Of course this morning I cried in front of him and I do complain and whine sometimes, but only about little things. I'm a girl. I can't help it.
I can't be perfect. I can't change every little flaw. Sometimes little flaws can't be changed because tha...
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is this slutty?
Posted Tuesday March 29 2011, 7:54 pm
i am 13, i have gotten fingered and felt up multiple times.. it isnt bad because it feels good but im also only in 6th grade. i have sent pictures.. but with a bra on. i am not dating the person who fingered me or felt me up, and it has happend with more than one guy. please tell me what u think.
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is he using me? I dunno if he just wants action or likes me?
Posted Tuesday March 29 2011, 7:33 pm
Me and this guy hung out and hooked up and he wanted to go farther and I said no and he's like pleasee, we'll take it slow after this but I still said no, I asked him bout it in the morning he said he didn't want a relationship and then we stopped tlaking then he started talking to me again and he asked me for nudes and asked me to strip for him and I said no and he always wants to chill and I said no because I thought it was a booty call so I said no but then like the third time he got mad and I was like sorry I want respect and don't wanna be used! And he's like I'm not using you I like you and I'm like what about when you said you don't want A relationship and he's like well I've missed you since then :( and hooking up with someone you l...
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He's good looking so why is he afraid to approach me?
Posted Tuesday March 29 2011, 6:19 pm
There is this guy I like. He is very good looking and popular and I know a lot of women would love to be with him. I see him always looking at me but he does not say much to me but he does not seem to have difficulty talking to other women. This makes me think he does not like me because i feel that since he is a good looking guy he should not have not have a hard time talking to me. Am I wrong to think that?
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Orgasm problem
Posted Tuesday March 29 2011, 5:38 pm
Whenever i please myself or have sex, i feel when good parts and i say in my head "this feels amazing" but i can never moan or orgasm outloud for some reason? I know when i climax, but it never shows or comes out verbally. Why is that? HELP!
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I don't know what to do. Wait, or get over him.
Posted Tuesday March 29 2011, 4:15 pm
My boyfriend of four months broke up with me because his dad, who lives in California, doesn't approve of us going out. I was very upset. I told him all my thoughts. I told him I couldn't believe him. I freaked out. And an hour later, he said he loves me but now he knows I don't want to get back together. He never mentioned it being temporary. He is trying to put the blame on me. I know I most likely hurt him but he never specified. Now he thinks I hate him. I really do love him and I don't want to lose him. He said he'll never have me convinced that he won't hurt me. I love him so much though. I never meant anything I said.
We worked it out. He called me and we talked for a while. He was asking me what would happen if we d...
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He has a girlfriend but I like him anyway...
Posted Tuesday March 29 2011, 2:38 pm
I am a 14 year old girl. This guy in my class has a girlfriend but I think he kinda likes me what do I do if I kinda like him back?? We don't talk to each other though. What do I do?!
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Pain during ejaculation
Posted Tuesday March 29 2011, 2:37 pm
I am a man and for the last 3 or 4 months when i get ready to cum i get a pain on my side and it hurts so bad i can;t finish cumming. Can you help me?
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Ex Bf
Posted Tuesday March 29 2011, 12:33 pm
My bf and I (both 18) decided to mutually split up after our five month relationship started going downhill. He is a sweet guy but sometimes he doesn't understand me and it was hard to make days to see eachother. We live an hr away. After we split up he didn't talk to me for four months (understandable) and we both havn't dated anyone else. We had a pretty good relationship up to that point. I poked him on facebook a week ago and then today he texts me and asks how Im doing. I say im alright and he says hes ok. The convo went pretty good. He is in college so he does get swamped with homework at times and studying. I am just wondering why he would text me out of the blue? Has he been thinking about me? Thoughts?
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my life is falling apart
Posted Tuesday March 29 2011, 9:29 am
I am married in my mid-20s and have been with this person for 6 years. I love them with every breath i take. However in the past year, this person started an emotional relationship with someone else and almost left me. a couple months later he became obessed with a web cam girl and was making plans to meet her. and in november he posted a add for sex on craigslist. I thought i was over all that crap but a month ago i kissed a friend. I realized that i was no inlove with my husband anymore. Our sexaul relationship is gone. it is like living with my best friend. to make thigns worse, this person i kissed i really developed intense feelings for. I took action on these feelings and now im very confused. i am afraid i have fallen for him. I...
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guilt- help me please
Posted Tuesday March 29 2011, 4:26 am
So while my boyfriend was in another state, I went to a party and ended up very drunkenly cuddling with another guy - my friend that likes me but I have NO INTEREST in him, in his bed all night, with my panties off. I told my bf everything the next morning and also told him I think we might have kissed. There is still one thing that is eating me up, I am pretty sure that at one point I was touched down there, the thing is I don't exactly remember if I touched myself or if I pulled the guys hand to touch me thinking it was my bf or maybe I just wanted it, but I remember as soon as I felt it getting touched I stopped it. Now we talked about it twice and he is over it but I feel like I am lying to him if I don't tell him this one thing-
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mixed signals
Posted Tuesday March 29 2011, 2:43 am
a couple of weeks ago i posted something similar to:
"16/f. same school, same classes. He's kind of shy.
~in the morning he hugged me and put his hands tight around my waist and as i was pulling away he kept his hands on my sides and we were just kind of looking at each other for a while.
~he asked for my number because he said he wanted to talk more
~while i was with a group of friends during a class he asked me if i can "help" him with his work, when i sat with him he said he just wanted an excuse to talk to me
~people, including him, usually hang out in the parking lot near my school when school's out. he didnt know i was going with a few friends.(he left school before me) as soon as i go...
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i know or i think i'm being used and why is it hard to leave ? =( help!
Posted Tuesday March 29 2011, 1:10 am
ok so first, i'm 21, i met this exchange student at my university, he's at class with me, we started dating and i saw he was interested, i was a virgin, i lost my virginity to him, i'm pretty sure he isnt seeing other girls other than me, but i dont get it, when im with him he's the sweetest guy EVER he holds my hand always holds me and kisses me even at night when i stay at his he always holds me (eventho i dont like being hold when sleeping) or he holds my hand when we're asleep, sweet things like that...but we have been seeing each other since mid january, he will leave in may, a long distance realtionship isnt an option and i dont even know if we have a relationship now, but sometimes i feel he just wants to see me for sex, sometimes i ...
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how to get "him" to ask me out
Posted Monday March 28 2011, 10:45 pm
Hey guys, Im a 20 year old chic. There's this guy i find myself falling for more everyday, and he says he likes me and can't stay away from me. He told me a FEW MONTHS ago that he doesn't want to be just "friends" cause he doesn't want to lose his chance with me (he's leaving for basics in 2 months btw).
we're together as much as possible, and love it. But the boy STILL hasn't asked me out. What can I do to get him to commit?? I don't want to be pushy, but this is getting a bit rediculous. We've known each other for 4 years - so what's holding him back?
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She wants me to hurt her... and I don't want to do it... but I want to make her happy?
Posted Monday March 28 2011, 9:59 pm
Alright so this might be a weird question but I don't know really where else to ask it... My girlfriend and I aren't what you'd call kinky but if we do get outta the box, there's one thing we probably enjoy the most. She likes being... dominated I think is what you'd say. She's a confident, strong, amazing girl, but in the bedroom she is extremely submissive. Which I'm okay with. She likes being held down, tied up, and loves the naughty schoolgirl/evil teacher thing haha ahhh... But I'm very careful with her, shes pretty tiny so I don't let anything get out of hand, no worries. Yeah anyway so she's been kinda hinting at wanting me to get rough with her, which that, I'm not okay with. Thinking about hurting her turns me off instatntly and I ...
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He probably thinks I hate him.
Posted Monday March 28 2011, 7:18 pm
My boyfriend of four months broke up with me because his dad, who lives in California, doesn't approve of us going out.
I was very upset. I told him all my thoughts. I told him I couldn't believe him. I freaked out. And an hour later, he said he loves me but now he knows I don't want to get back together. He never mentioned it being temporary. He is trying to put the blame on me. I know I most likely hurt him but he never specified. Now he thinks I hate him. I really do love him and I don't want to lose him. He said he'll never have me convinced that he won't hurt me. I love him so much though. I never meant anything I said.
He wants to meet me in the morning so we can talk.
Guys I need help...
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HUUGGGE Crush .
Posted Monday March 28 2011, 7:07 pm
well , hello im a female early teenager . So there's this boy name kyle, when i first met him i only thought he was cute but than things start tn change about two weeks ago . You guys might say this is childish but im so confused right now . So just last friday i went to a party and he was there and he was there so toward the end me the party people start to leave . So me and my friends start to talk to him and a group of his friends that was your real first conversation with me and him, but people came tn ruin the circle . So later i asked him to dance and he was like no i don't dance that's what his friend said but i could tell he wanted to .. fifteen minutes Later i left not because of him just because my mom was there ..... Soo today ...
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What are the little things girls do that you think are cute?
Posted Monday March 28 2011, 6:47 pm
So, i think quite randomly, and this is only for guys around 14-15, but what are the little things girls do that you think are cute? long eyelashes? The way they walk, talk, what? i've heard so many odd answers like- pedicures, and that a girls shoes always fit, so what is what you like (not sexual)
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stalker...
Posted Monday March 28 2011, 5:25 pm
I have this guy who used to babysit me when I was 7. I am now 18, and have just moved back to england after leaving for american for 10 years. He always messages me on facebook and I dont even remember him! He is atleast 30 years old. He wanted to go out on a date, so i agreed just to see who this guy was. In the end, I ended up getting really drunk and ended up at his house. I woke up in the morning not even remembering what happened when we got there. He has a big American flag above his bed. I am scared he is a bit to into me.. can you please tell me if im just over exaggerating??
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I feel ready to go further in this relationship. Advice?
Posted Monday March 28 2011, 4:35 pm
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four months. He never ever pressures me, and even though he jokes about some things, he is very patient and understanding.
The farthest we have gone is kissing. Sometimes I sit in his lap, but we do cuddle and hold each other a lot. I really do like him, and I know he really likes me or else he wouldn't stick around through my insecurities and teasing. I think we really connect as a couple and it's really great to have a loving, open relationship after so many heartbreaks.
Anyway, I feel really ready to go a little bit further in our relationship. I'm waiting to have sex and all that, and I am grossed out over tongue kissing, so I definitely am skipping that. So...
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