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He probably thinks I hate him.
My boyfriend of four months broke up with me because his dad, who lives in California, doesn't approve of us going out.
I was very upset. I told him all my thoughts. I told him I couldn't believe him. I freaked out. And an hour later, he said he loves me but now he knows I don't want to get back together. He never mentioned it being temporary. He is trying to put the blame on me. I know I most likely hurt him but he never specified. Now he thinks I hate him. I really do love him and I don't want to lose him. He said he'll never have me convinced that he won't hurt me. I love him so much though. I never meant anything I said.
He wants to meet me in the morning so we can talk.
Guys I need help. Like urgently. Because I don't know what to do. He thinks I hate him when I don't.
What do I do?
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Just tell him. Be sincere and be honest about how you felt and what you thought about the situation. That is the only way you are going to figure things out. Communication is the key aspect in any relationship no matter what. If there is no communication then there isn't a relationship. The fact that his Dad diapproves of you shouldn't matter if he loves you then thats his choice on whether or not he wants to be with you. Love is crazy I know first hand! Good luck!
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Tell him howyou feel before he has time to speak. Tell him listen. I love you and I don't want to lose you. Ask how can your dad not approve of me when he lives far away. Tell him it hurt you when he told you he wanted to end the relationship because his father didnt want him to be with you and explain to him Tel him you under stand how important family is but he didnt even try to convince his father how important i mean to you.
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