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how to get "him" to ask me out
Hey guys, Im a 20 year old chic. There's this guy i find myself falling for more everyday, and he says he likes me and can't stay away from me. He told me a FEW MONTHS ago that he doesn't want to be just "friends" cause he doesn't want to lose his chance with me (he's leaving for basics in 2 months btw).
we're together as much as possible, and love it. But the boy STILL hasn't asked me out. What can I do to get him to commit?? I don't want to be pushy, but this is getting a bit rediculous. We've known each other for 4 years - so what's holding him back?
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Talk to him, ask him these questions, and if you have known him for that long maybe he is waiting until the right time for the M words:)
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By basic I take it to mean military. He doesn't want to develop something that might get taken with his life during deployment. Let this boy do his soldering and he will be all about you when he comes home. Just let him know the candle is burning.
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well, maybe he just doesnt want to get into anything to serious before he leaves because then you two would just miss each other more and it would be even harder to be away from him. if your sure that you like him alot and you know that he likes you, just be happy with spending time with him. he'll be ready eventualy- even if it takes longer than you would like it to. you know it takes a piece of sand almost 10 years to become a desent sized pearl. at least you dont have to wait that long right ? (: hope i could help
~Alana*
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