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stalker...
I have this guy who used to babysit me when I was 7. I am now 18, and have just moved back to england after leaving for american for 10 years. He always messages me on facebook and I dont even remember him! He is atleast 30 years old. He wanted to go out on a date, so i agreed just to see who this guy was. In the end, I ended up getting really drunk and ended up at his house. I woke up in the morning not even remembering what happened when we got there. He has a big American flag above his bed. I am scared he is a bit to into me.. can you please tell me if im just over exaggerating??
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According to the definition in the Urban Dictionary you are being Stalked as the word is currently being used. To the true definition of a Stalker you most likely are not being stalked.
If this person is following you, turning up at places where you are uninvited, showering you with unwanted gifts, pestering you for dates or simply following your every waking move. Then report him to the police. If you feel endanger than dial 999.
Otherwise block him on face book, block his tests and email and don't open the door should he show up on your door step. If he tries to force his way into your home you dial 999 and ask the police to come to arrest him. Otherwise in general ignore him and he should get the message.
If by the way you had sex with him while drunk this would be considered rape as you cannot consent to sex while drunk. Even in England sex has to be consensual and being drunk or passed out means you cannot consent. You could charge him with rape if you want.
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If you don't like him then tell him, Don't lead him on. You got drunk, When to his house and god knows what happened..
A stalker?..No, I wouldn't exactly call it stalking. You are of legal age and it the guy probably likes you and figures now is a good time to try and lure you into going on a date with him. If you don't want him to contact you, Then BLOCK him on facebook and stop talking to him and eventually he should get the bigger picture.
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Okay, granted...he may have had an innapropriate crush on you, and maybe still does.
But the fact that you went out on a date with him, Got drunk with him, Ended up at his house, And for all you know, could have had sex, or whatever with him without even knowing it (because you say you were too drunk to remember), doesn't help, because you're giving him mixed signals.
Even if he only liked you a little before, im sure he likes you alot more after you going on a date with him.
The best thing is to probabaly just tell him straight. You don't like him, so tell him. The age gap is pretty inappropriate aswell. You have nothing to lose. And if he keeps messaging you, you can report it to fb. Hope i helped :)
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