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I don't know what to do. Wait, or get over him.
My boyfriend of four months broke up with me because his dad, who lives in California, doesn't approve of us going out. I was very upset. I told him all my thoughts. I told him I couldn't believe him. I freaked out. And an hour later, he said he loves me but now he knows I don't want to get back together. He never mentioned it being temporary. He is trying to put the blame on me. I know I most likely hurt him but he never specified. Now he thinks I hate him. I really do love him and I don't want to lose him. He said he'll never have me convinced that he won't hurt me. I love him so much though. I never meant anything I said.
We worked it out. He called me and we talked for a while. He was asking me what would happen if we didn't get back together. Being very emotional, it takes a long time for me to get over things. He kept asking what would happen, which makes me think he's not going to get back with me. He says he still loves me and he's sorry for everything. It's all so upsetting. He wants to get back together, but at the same time he is unsure. I want to wait, but not too long. I love him so much. We have the perfect chemistry and everything was great between us: perfect communication, full trust, and endless affection. I don't want to lose him. I have never felt the way I feel with him with anyone else. I don't want anyone else to love. What do I do?
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I know you want to wait to make things sure, but you need to explain that you need to give it some time to fall back into that feeling again. The last thing you want is for him to say I give up on you. Trust me, I know how it feels, and it's not very nice or comforting either.
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