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Confront or ignore
Alright, so i'm having a sweet sixteen coming up in 4 days. I invited about thirty people. People that i use to be friends with, lets say about three of them i did not invite. It all started where they all turned on me and stopped talking to me because they had a party where they drank alchohol, didn't invite me and i got angry and i told my parents. First off, i tell my parents everything and my parents could give two craps about any of these friends. I turnto them for everything and i made the mistake of telling them in front of a fake friend. So they all started ignoring me, made me cry, and actually had the nerve to post a status on facebook about how immature someone is to not invite someone to their birthday party because there mad. I usually don't confront people, i just like it to slip by but i'm starting to realize i need to stand up for myself. So what do you think, confront or ignore?
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i think that you should definately confront them about this if you ignore them it's noot going to stop and they will keep making these nasty comments, don't be rude about it because this could make things worse simply speak to them and make them understand that you confide in your parents and tell them why you didn't invite them but be stern and show them that you're no longer gonna take their shit.
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Ignore.
You don't 'stand up for yourself' by pursuing drama with people who are not your friends and whose opinions shouldn't matter to you anyways.
If you confront them, they are right: You are just mad and looking for to continue the drama.
If you ignore them, you aren't just mad, you are done with them. A far more mature, and sensible position to take.
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