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what is he trying to tell me?


Posted Wednesday April 6 2011, 12:25 am

im 18/f and hes 19/m

so last night i was up late talking to the guy i really like. He knows how much i love cute songs, and he was playing them to me through skype. Some of the songs were so cute that i actually cried cause it felt like it was coming from him... but i know thats my wishful thinking haha >.<
but he did mention some interesting things.
one of these being him playing a song we were listening to in his car that i mentioned i liked but completely forgot what it was called and whatnot. and i was like "i think i said i liked this song" and hes like "you did. i remember alot :P" which actually surprised me seeing as i spent 10 hours with him that day, yet he still remembers ...

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He has a girlfriend but...


Posted Tuesday April 5 2011, 11:04 pm

I've known this boy for many years, we went to school together and we tried dating but it never really worked out. Mainly because i didn't know what i wanted back then, but we've always kept in touch. He has a girlfriend, but he always asks to hang out and i know he's into me still because every time we hang out he shows his interest. I never make a move because i wouldn't do that to his girlfriend, but i wonder why he would put himself in that predicament when he knows his girlfriend would get mad. I mean, why would he just not break up with her and try to make it work with me? I guess what i'm trying to ask is should i just tell him we can't hang out or should i make a move and see what happens? Maybe he will break up with his girlfriend ...

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To go with my gut feeling or not...


Posted Tuesday April 5 2011, 11:01 pm

I'm into a guy that i really shouldn't be. The wierd thing is is that i really don't know what it is about him that draws me to want him so bad. I told myself that i would never in a million years hook up with him, but i did anyway. I know in the long run it's probably in my best interest if i stayed away but he's all i think about. So should i just say screw it and have fun anyway? Or should i stay clear when i know it's for the better?

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I Need advice Quickly


Posted Tuesday April 5 2011, 10:34 pm

Well this is not just love and life...This is about alot of things happening in my life...I feel betrayed and used ..I also feel like a failure...Well someone I really liked supposedly showed me that he cared about me and then he made me believe he liked me when a few months later he chose another girl over me...I felt so bad because I feel like ive been lied too...and I feel so mad because he looked at me with those eyes making believe he felt love for me and all was lies...I met this other guy ,,,I was falling for him after the first night he made me believe so many things///that he missed me and wanted to be with me showing interest..he almost kissed me..a few days ago I saw him writing about another girl who he loved...I feel so stupid ...

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can't stop thinking about him


Posted Tuesday April 5 2011, 6:59 pm

Okay so I met this very cute and nice guy at my brothers wrestling ternement like three weeks ago (we knew eachother befor but really never hanged out) and we been hanging out when I see him,but now I can't see him nomore since my brothers wrestling is over. I honestly liked him when we started to hangout . Its been a long time since the last time I saw him. Now I can't get stop thinking about him, what do I do?

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Still hasn't showed up... Doubt he likes me like I like him.


Posted Tuesday April 5 2011, 6:50 pm

So if you haven't read my last post, I am dating a really nice guy. We've spoken on Facebook and we have mutual friends, but we barely knew each other until Saturday. I spent the whole day with him. I really am beginning to like him. He's very smart, funny, and quirky. I feel really happy around him. He told me he's liked me ever since he texted me from my friend's phone in December...and he said he likes me even more now since we spent the day together.

However, I sometimes feel like he doesn't like me as much as I like him. Like, I know it's early in our relationship, but I can't help but doubt. For instance, he and I barely talked yesterday. He was sweet in person, but through the computer he's rather quiet. He doesn't ha...

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College, change


Posted Tuesday April 5 2011, 6:28 pm

I met my boyfriend my freshman year of highschool, he was a junior at the time. We have been together about a year, ive never been this close to a guy before, I even went as far as losing IT to him. But the thing is, Hes graduating this year and im moving away to another city for my last two years of highschool. I also dont feel very attracted to him anymore..something changed. I still care a lot about him I have a lot of great memories but...I dont feel the same and I wish I did. Any advice? PS. Im 15 and hes 19

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Texas Sex Laws 17 year old and 18 year old


Posted Tuesday April 5 2011, 6:23 pm

If a 17 year old or 18 year old was to have sex, can the 18 year old get in trouble? NO OPINIONS I NEED FACTS. i have looked all over the net and have seen many different answers.

the age of consent in texas is 17, so then an the 17 year old legally have sex with the 18 year old and the 18 year old WILL NOT go to jail or any kind of charges or trouble ?

i heard about something around three years. can a 17 year old have sex with a 20 year old... 21?

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I have herpes, but I didn't tell him. How do I tell him now, before we go on a trip and...?


Posted Tuesday April 5 2011, 4:20 pm

Six or seven months ago i found out i have herpes aka my bad friend that never gets blamed.... it never really hit me until about 3 days ago ... i tried to be strong but i met this guy and i have been speaking to him on the net and he is amazing ... everything i have been asking for its like its almost to good to be true ...oh yeah it is... i have Herpes... smh... How do i tell him such a thing...not the right way but the way that would make us both at least feel comfortable... i almost always cry for everything(emotional but dont want to be in front of him) and im getting alot of different feed back ... but not quite sure what to do ... i feel stuck and like im branded like a cow...Im afraid if i tell him to early it would hurt me... and i...

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rim jobs


Posted Tuesday April 5 2011, 4:01 pm

do boys get or give more rim jobs


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Girlfriends and boyfriends


Posted Tuesday April 5 2011, 12:45 pm

What do people mean when they say that they 'got on someone'? For example, 'I got on this guy at the party last night.'

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Dating a new guy


Posted Tuesday April 5 2011, 8:27 am

So recently, I have been dating this guy. My last boyfriend and I recently broke up too, but we're friends.

I really like this new guy. He's funny, quirky, adorable, and smart. We spent the whole day together on Saturday, and I'm seeing him today.

But I feel weird. I mean, he doesn't have a cell so we talk on yahoo and Facebook a lot. But lately he's been taking a long time to answer and when he does respond he just writes one word replies. Starting to get skeptical about this. Although he treats me very kind in person, I feel left out when we're talking through the computers. I feel like he doesn't like me. He spent so much time chasing me and flirting with me, but now, I feel like the thrill is gone for ...

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Her family are tearing us apart


Posted Tuesday April 5 2011, 5:46 am

me and mky gf are close but her family are knobs and she starting to hate herslef and it tearing us apart im 16 eney ideas ?

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I dont know what to do about my Ex!


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 9:17 pm

I recently broke up with my first boyfriend, and I just had to because I felt we were growing apart, even though he had went on vacation. Now I'm really upset and have cried a little bit, and I think I miss him! He was really upset today, the first day after spring break and told me he wanted me back, even though our break up was 2 fridays ago. Although, a big part of me really wants him back, but then again, I dont know if I should just let go, considering the fact that we will be going to different schools next year, I am SO confused, please help me.

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kissing the guy i like again


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 7:32 pm

ok so i like this guy and we r friends and hang out with eachother alot.we talk on the phone alot to.one time we met up during class and we kissed.then 2 days later we did something after school in the cafeteria and we made out a few times afterwards.he says he wants to do it again, but i dont think he wants to kiss ME. i think he just wants to kiss somebody.ive told him but he says he WANTS to kiss me. wat should i say to him without telling him tht i like him as much as i do?

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Why Me ?


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 7:02 pm

Okay , so i told you about kyle twice in asking you a couple of questions . So i've come to realize its never going to work , EVER ! im giving up on love , i feel like ' Fuck Love , Im Done Trying ' i don't know what i else i could do to get his attention anymore at all or just with any boy i don't know . . . its like if im not ugly than why won't anything good happen for me my personality is great so why !! i just quit on life i've been feeling that way for a while . . . and you guys are probably judging me not that i care with you perfect little lives . i Give UPP . please don't say talk go talk to a friend no will understand .

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Boyfriend is pissed I asked some other guy to prom instead of him


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 6:01 pm

Long story short, I asked a friend to prom who wasn't my boyfriend. The Thing is, I knew my boyfriend didn't really want to go, although he offered to take me. He hates dances and wouldn't enjoy himself, I didn't wan't to force him into a situation that makes him unhappy. We also have a long distance relationship, so I would have to pay a lot more money to take him when he wouldn't really want to be there in the first place. I genuinely thought that he would be relieved not to go, but I made the mistake of assuming he would be okay with it. However, when I told him he was really upset. We have been going out for almost a year and never fought until now. I feel terrible and want to make it up to him more than anything. Please, I need some advice on how to fix this ad apologize.

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Why do people start rumors?


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 5:34 pm



I mean really? Lately, and before people have started stuff saying my boy friend was cheating, or doing something wrong, when he's not the type..and I'm tired of it.

I want it to stop, because it's making me so paranoid ..and I already worry so much.. I love my boy friend and we've been dating a year and 4 months I'm not ready to let go..

How do you deal with this?

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Am I a slut. Still facing this?


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 4:45 pm



Basically my question is, what would you classify me as?

I was a good girl growing up. Like no intercourse or anything. I was locked down in the house getting grades. Then I hit college or in other words freedom. Boys and liquor got introduced. I started to become sexual as in giving and receiving oral. I believe I am sexual to a point, but I am 19 and still a virgin. Yes I said it, 19 and still a virgin. 20 in 17 days! lol I have done many sexual things I am not proud of. Like giving oral to a guys friend 2 months after talking to that guy. I feel like some people would classify me as a slut because of the number of guys I gave oral to. But I am much more than that. I am very loving and caring! But all people...

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Crush doesn't know if we should be friends


Posted Monday April 4 2011, 12:08 pm

what do i do if my crush doesnt know if we should be friends

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