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To go with my gut feeling or not...
I'm into a guy that i really shouldn't be. The wierd thing is is that i really don't know what it is about him that draws me to want him so bad. I told myself that i would never in a million years hook up with him, but i did anyway. I know in the long run it's probably in my best interest if i stayed away but he's all i think about. So should i just say screw it and have fun anyway? Or should i stay clear when i know it's for the better?
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Go with your gut feeling.
I've been in plenty situations like this. "should i risk it and have fun? or should i do what is the right thing?"
these are the questions i asked myself endlessly when i came to a huge dilemma. unfortunately.. i made the wrong decision :( i decided to risk it and "have fun" thinking it would be fun and harmless. but BOY i was wrong.. instead of having "fun", i had to worry constantly every day about getting caught. every single day i would live in fear. yeah it could have been fun at first, but after that.. i started getting really scared about the consequences i could face. the feeling of fear was bigger than the "fun" i thought i would have. i should have listened to my conscious and my gut instinct..
don't make the same mistake i did. go with your gut.
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take deep breaths, in and out. sit in a comfortable position, until you feel relaxed and your body feels a bit at peace.
then think of the decision you are going to make,
if your breathing gets shallower or you have "that feeling" in your gut.. or start to feel a bit at unease, that's a bad sign.
don't do it
always, always follow your gut instinct.
no matter what :)
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