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Why Me ?


Question Posted Monday April 4 2011, 7:02 pm

Okay , so i told you about kyle twice in asking you a couple of questions . So i've come to realize its never going to work , EVER ! im giving up on love , i feel like ' Fuck Love , Im Done Trying ' i don't know what i else i could do to get his attention anymore at all or just with any boy i don't know . . . its like if im not ugly than why won't anything good happen for me my personality is great so why !! i just quit on life i've been feeling that way for a while . . . and you guys are probably judging me not that i care with you perfect little lives . i Give UPP . please don't say talk go talk to a friend no will understand .

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Gabiie answered Monday April 11 2011, 5:53 am:
im not sure what the question is but i think your right!
at the moment it seems that theres no point in trying because it's never going to work right?
and thats probably true!

but thats not the case with every guy out there.
so your heart is broken, and yeah its going to take time to even consider the thought of letting another guy into your life. But you can't let that little fact control you! Go for a run or try boxing, get rid of your anger. go out have fun with your friends.. yes this may be hard at first because its the last thing you want to do.. but what is sitting around and mopping going to do?

Don't focus on guy, be happy with who YOU are and the right guy WILL come..

This is one guy! your feelings may be strong for him, but how long do you think they will last? Be open to the idea of moving on, have fun and show him that its his lost, and that you are beautiful & strong.

-Gabiie

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Erich answered Saturday April 9 2011, 12:53 pm:
Dudes dig it when you date-rape 'em ;-p
Just an idea.

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julie75 answered Tuesday April 5 2011, 5:14 pm:
I hate to tell you this sweetie but you're a dumbass. You're not the only one that's ever gone trough this and you won't be the last one either. I know your friends probably have happy relationships and you may be a little jealous of other couples happiness but nothing says you have to be in a relationship all the time. Enjoy being single for a while. Spend more time with your family, hang out with your friends and put more time into your school work. Concentrate on getting better grades, then you can get a great job and then you can make your friends jealous. Sometimes relationships just aren't ment to be, so be patient and eventually someone will come along. I hope this helps and good luck.

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MissYMelisS answered Tuesday April 5 2011, 9:18 am:
First off, nobody has a perfect life. Its rude of you to say that to people who have done nothing but try to give you advice.
Maybe the guys your going after just don't like you?

Stop looking for a relationship. Nobody's going to date you if your coming on all strong. Just relax. Enjoy your young life.

And fyi, if none of your friends will understand than you should look into getting some new friends.

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TellStar answered Tuesday April 5 2011, 7:05 am:
We somethings forget that the love we are looking for lies within us - Forget about guys who are not worth having you, start concentarting fully on your self, on making your self happy, pampering your self, have things in other area of life going for you and see that you will start feeling good within and outward and when you feel this way you come out glowing with so much courage/self confience and i tell you guys always notice a women with self confidence then they will be approaching you and it will be upto you who you want to end up with.

Please do not waste time lingering around people who do not notice or appreaciate you for you are worth more than that. I hope this helps.

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Xui answered Tuesday April 5 2011, 1:19 am:
Look, Love just doesn't always happen when you want it too. You have to be patient and stop trying so hard. Sometimes when a girl tries to hard to get a guys attention they actually end up doing the opposite because it scares them off to the point where the intentionally try ignoring you.

If you tried to get his attention gradually and it didn't work then obviously the guy is just not into you. Find someone else who likes you for who you are but maybe you should take a break for a little while before you attempt again and next time don't go overboard.

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Jasmine23 answered Monday April 4 2011, 9:40 pm:
hmmm If this guy that your trying so hard to get his attention,. Still hasn't noticed you. Well Sorry to say he is SOOO Not worth it. You deserve to be treated like a princess! Honestly don't try finding love,. but let it come to you. you will see that it will come knocking on your door when you least expect it,., so just try enjoying life and hang out with friends to get your mind off of the pain and frustrating.

Hope this helps:)
^Jasmine!*

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