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I dont know what to do about my Ex!
I recently broke up with my first boyfriend, and I just had to because I felt we were growing apart, even though he had went on vacation. Now I'm really upset and have cried a little bit, and I think I miss him! He was really upset today, the first day after spring break and told me he wanted me back, even though our break up was 2 fridays ago. Although, a big part of me really wants him back, but then again, I dont know if I should just let go, considering the fact that we will be going to different schools next year, I am SO confused, please help me.
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Aw, breakups really sucks, it's the same feeling most people experience when you decide to part with someone you love because one thing or the other isn't right. At the end of the day whether you want to get back with him or not is all up to you because you know what you've been through being together, is it all worth it? know that your happiness is most important, dont consider getting back because he wants to, We women could sometimnes really get emotional and make decisions out of pitty but you need to look into the future especially when you two will be heading to different schools next year, does that leave you enough time to patch things back up and build up your trust and love or you could move on and just remain friends. Being apart might make you realise other interest or could bring you two together again.
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Sometimes people need time apart, Spending all your time together with your partner can drain the spark.
You gave little description on your relationship with your ex, Why did you feel you were growing apart? Do you really think the reason is fixable?
You stated you two will be attending two different schools next year, Will you be able to handle the pressure of being apart?
Sometimes breakup are a bitch but life does go on even in the worst cases. Aside from missing and wanting him back, Is it really worth it the time and effort..That's the main question.
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Sometimes people need to take a break from eachother to become closer,. it sounds like you two really miss eachother. And that is really cute. You two should focus on the now. focus on being with the person you care so deeply about. Don't worry about the next year. That is so far away. Just be happy with the present time.
Hope this helps:)
^Jasmine!*
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