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I Need advice Quickly
Well this is not just love and life...This is about alot of things happening in my life...I feel betrayed and used ..I also feel like a failure...Well someone I really liked supposedly showed me that he cared about me and then he made me believe he liked me when a few months later he chose another girl over me...I felt so bad because I feel like ive been lied too...and I feel so mad because he looked at me with those eyes making believe he felt love for me and all was lies...I met this other guy ,,,I was falling for him after the first night he made me believe so many things///that he missed me and wanted to be with me showing interest..he almost kissed me..a few days ago I saw him writing about another girl who he loved...I feel so stupid ...Ive gained alot of weight and it keeps me hard to loose it everyday I eat more and more...I wanna stop this get my life in track loose the weight,,,and find love...someone who wont lie to me because ive been lied to much and feel very useddd help me pleaseeeee
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yeah.. love sucks sometimes. but honey.. thats life.
you gotta risk it to get the biscuit.
I dont know about you, but I would rather get hurt and lied and betrayed a thousand times than to live in fear every day. Want to know why? because when you get hurt like this, yes you do crash and burn.. but then, a miracle happens. you become STRONGER.
i've had a ton of shit happen in my life. i took many risks and i've gotten hurt numerous times. but you know what? when i look in the mirror now, i see confidence and strength in myself. i realized that I'm stronger because of these things. My heart has been broken so many times, but without those "heart breaks" i wouldn't be as strong as I am right now.
my point is.. if you live in fear everyday, you won't gain experiences. which means you won't learn new things. which means you won't become stronger and be able to face different issues.
honey, i know its hard. i've been there and done that. but you know what? it gets better. just like the other person said, give out love. when you give out something, you're always going to get something back in return. Karma. If you do good things, then good things will happen to you. Bad people in this world have sucky lives because bad things happen to them. Good people in this world live in happiness because their good deeds are payed back to themselves. Keep your head up high. Be confident and proud of yourself. Every little heart break or dilemma in your life will make you a stronger person.
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love.
give out as much love as you can.
volunteer, do good things for people, support charity, help your parents out in the kitchen, say hi to the person walking across the street
just send out love..
it will all come back to you. multiplied. in every way imaginable, i promiseee
just try it (:..
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