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Military & Marriage Posted Saturday April 23 2011, 10:13 am
F/18
Please don't tell me that I'm too young to get married. My fiance and I have been together for almost 4 years. We got engaged when I was 17 and he was 19. He's leaving this August for the Navy and he's going to be training as a SEAL. My question is when would be the best time to get married? It's either before his basic in August or after his first deployment which is 3 years from now. I know there's not very much leave time during each section of training and I don't want to get court house married. I would just like some input from others. Thanks :)
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I don't know how to feel or what to do.. Posted Saturday April 23 2011, 8:34 am
I'm 18/f he's 19/m
So basically I posted on here before about how I have really strong feelings for my best friend. And how he had a mystery girl and I wanted to know whether or not it was me. Well basically I decided it just couldn't be me and well I got pretty upset trying to accept it and move on...and that's when one of my friends I hadn't spoken into a while (also mutual friends with the guy I like) told me I have nothing to worry about and asked me if there was something going on between us cause she's noticed he treats me alot differently and whatnot. And that's when she called me to tell me something cause she could see how upset I was getting over him. She then told me that he told her anything, and that I'm not mea...
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Met once and i really like him but now idk. Posted Friday April 22 2011, 11:55 pm
Okaay, so I met this kid one night when me and my friend were sneaking out. We just randomly talked to them and we were hella flirting and laughing but like my friend said i ditched my cousin by himself at home, so the guy got kinda weird out or mad so I think that turned him off but we were still laughing after that and flirting. So, I gave him my number, and two days after he prank called me using his friends. I called that number and tried getting info about the guy i like from that friend but the friend gets mad and so now i think that friend likes me! So, I wanna just ask the friend for the other guy's number but im afraid he'd stop talking to me if i do because he might think thats the only reason why im talking to him. BUT! I found t...
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boyfriend acts wierd around his friends Posted Friday April 22 2011, 5:52 pm
is it normal for your boyfriend to act like he doesn't care about you around his guy friends? is that normal does he wanna show them that he's in charge or does he just make a joke?
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Im starting to feel slightly worried.. Posted Friday April 22 2011, 5:33 pm
Me: 15/F
Her: 14/F
The last few nights I slept at my girlfriends and we got a little carried away at night. We ended up fingering eachother but we managed to keep quiet. Anyway this mornin I accidently gave her a hickey. I was really sorry about it. I actually really didnt mean to do it. Anyway i came home today. I while earlier she said her dad said "I want a word with you tomorrow" when she asked why he said "That on your neck for starters" She said she was scared to. They saw the hickey this morning and said "Y'know it can give you skin cancer" I gathered there was dangers but it was only a cm big. Yet it still made me feel really bad. Anyway i'm worried her parents heard us and ask her.For al...
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Is there anything wrong with being friends with benefits? Posted Friday April 22 2011, 3:35 pm
16/f
Okay, so me and this guy I've known my whole life have been talking lately, just as friends. I kind of like him and he does me too,but until something as far as a relationship happens he wants to be sex buddies and I kinda want to too.. Is there anything wrong with that?
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Love Religion Marriage Posted Friday April 22 2011, 10:06 am
Well I am in this situation where I have been dumped by someone I love, someone I wanted to marry, someone I planned with etc just because I am christian and she is a moslem woman.
Well the dumping started last december, after about 1year and four months of good r/ship. It started the day I introduced her to my mum over the phone. Well this is what I think.
The dumping was implemented in January when I got back to our country of residence we are both from different countries.
Well what has shocked me more is that she started another r/ship barely one month after she broke up with me and with a guy who I had been suspecting. She spent about 10 days in this guys house while I was away because at th...
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i need advice on how to answer him Posted Friday April 22 2011, 6:58 am
My man is in prison and he wants to know how I feel about being commuted to two men? I know he wants to make sure im taken care of physically but how would you respond if you were asked this question?
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Trying to see where I stand with this guy Posted Friday April 22 2011, 3:14 am
Okay. Well. Lemme give you the backstory. Me and my roommate went to Foot Locker to buy stuff for her boyfriends birthday and we met this guy that we see on campus in there (he works there)and so when we were checking out, i asked him if he goes to my university, and he said "yeah, howd you know?" and i said "we see you at the black parties and at the gym" and he replied "oh yeah i train at the gym sometimes" and then continued with small talk.
So later, I asked my neighbor if he knew him, and he does, but i told him not to say anything cause i didnt want to act like im in 8th grade passing messages but he said something anyway:
He asked his coworker where the guy was when he went into foot locker...
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forbiden and not forbidin Posted Friday April 22 2011, 1:15 am
okay so theres two guyz one let call him chris i met in school. his a senor and im a freshmen problem is he has a girlfriend...so out of nowhere he started talking to me and then it turn in to flirting and then touching he huges me grabs my waist and hips. i realized this was wrong lil to late because istarted liking him alot. he was the first guy to ever give me that kind of attention in high school. i have tried everything to stop liking him, ive stopped talking to him iv e gotten mad at him but nothing works. a week ago he unhooked my bra and i didnt like that so ignored him for a day thats when i stopped liking him and thats were the other guy comes in let call him jerry, this guy has kind of been on the backround(his a sophmore 16) but...
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Is moaning a turn on Posted Friday April 22 2011, 1:04 am
Do guys like when you moan? I never thought i'd be a moaner but turns out i am. Is this a turn on for them? What other turn on's are there? I usually run my hands through his hair and grab it gently but other than that and moaning I don't know what else i can do!
I know every one is different, but any suggestions are welcomed. Thanks!
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Don't know if I'm a bad kisser Posted Friday April 22 2011, 1:00 am
20-female.
Alright so i'm a pretty girl (not trying to be conceited) but so many guys think I'm this sex freak cause I'm cute. I am not a virgin, i've only had sex once. But the thing that I'm worried about is making out. I've made out with three guys my whole life. And they have all been spread out. Like from the first makeout to the second was literally about 3 years. Then the second to the last make out was about 9 months. I feel like I'm not a good kisser because I haven't had as much experience. So this is what always ends up happening:
When I start making out with a guy I start to giggle and kind of laugh. I don't know why I do this, I think it's because I feel more comfortable and if I am a bad kisser th...
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Recently lied to my boyfriend... How can I fix it? Posted Friday April 22 2011, 12:08 am
Hi, I recently lied to my boyfriend and I don't know how to repair the damage I have done. I lied about my sexual past. I have always been told never to reveal how many sexual partners I've had because it will make a man look at me differently. Well, I admitted it and my friends were right. My boyfriend can't look at me in the same way and went as far as to call me a slut. I told him that I had my fun back in college, but when I am in a relationship I have always been faithful. He hates my past and every once in a while brings it up again. Sometimes he looks at me in silence and I'm always wondering whether he is imagining me with other men. Anyway, I also lied to him about ex-boyfriends writing on my wall on Facebook. It was my birthday re...
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What do I do? Now that we broke up I like him 10TIMES AS MUCH! Posted Thursday April 21 2011, 10:25 pm
Okay I dated this guy for the 3rd time. We lasted longer than the first two. He broke up with me cause I was having a really bad week and it made him think that I didn't want to date him and made him think that I didn't like him. To be honest I was kinda losing feelings for him, but now that we're over all my feelings are back and there 10x's stronger. He said we would be best friends, but he doesn't talk or look at me. I'm thinking he's talking to this girl cause they comment on each others walls on facebook all the time and hungout today. She's not a virgin too and he probably likes her for that reason too. What do I do? Get over him? Its not really working, I like him a lot now.
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I feel left out with out a boyfriend.... Posted Thursday April 21 2011, 9:17 pm
All my friends say that I'm beautiful (I just recently dyed my hair red) and that I don't need to date. But every time my friends start talking about awesome it was to hang out with their Boyfriends and their plans for the weekend with their BF, I feel left out. I am the only one of my friends that is single. Is there a way to feel less like an outcast??? I'm only 13...
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i want to get my boyfriend to go farther with me Posted Thursday April 21 2011, 8:56 pm
me and my boyfriend are really good atmaking out and stuff, but i want to go to the nextlevel. whenever we makeout im always ontop of him. i want him to someetimes go ontop of me. i want to do more. can yuo help me? do you know how to dry hump or just hump? i want to please him. so plz help me.
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Change of heart Posted Thursday April 21 2011, 7:44 pm
14/f
Each year, my junior high school has a "last dance," which is similar to prom. One of my boy friends asked me to it, but I said no because he was (and still is) really weird and kinda unpopular. But he's still really nice.
After that, things got kinda awkward and we stopped hanging out. A few weeks ago he sat with me on the bus and now he's talking to me again. I realized I actually like him, despite his weirdness. He's not afraid to be himself and doesn't care what others think. He likes all the same things I do.
Anyway, he told me he really likes two girls and he told me who they were (not me). I really like him and want to go to the dance with him, but he still thinks I don't like him. What should I do? Please help me!
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What's with him...?? Or is it me...? Posted Thursday April 21 2011, 7:42 pm
Hey! So I'm fifteen, and I'm a sophomore girl. Theres this guy... Hes basically like my brother. Were extremely close. A year ago he helped me through a really tough break up by just talking to me when I was down and telling me I was a wonderful person and letting me cry on his shoulder and what not. I also helped him when he was feeling shitty breaking up with his girlfriend. Since winter break we've been texting literally like every day... But I've started to grow some more feelings for him... There will be times when I think he feels the same way, that hes hinted at it so much that I think "okay he really does like me!" but then he ALWAYS drops a bomb like, "you're like my sister not a girl I'd ever date" or "I w...
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can she get pregneat? Posted Thursday April 21 2011, 3:39 pm
me and my girlfriend had sex and i pulled out and cummed on her vagina but shes on the pill can she get pregneat?
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Adults Only, Suggestions please. Posted Thursday April 21 2011, 2:16 pm
Recently my mate and I have decided to spice up our intimate life.. He told me to look into it sometime. There's only one problem.. When it comes to looking at pictures of real people being intimate, I honestly don't like it. I was wondering if there was a site or maybe an e book that has drawings instead of photographs of people.. or whatever.. Thanks.
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