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What do I do? Now that we broke up I like him 10TIMES AS MUCH!
Okay I dated this guy for the 3rd time. We lasted longer than the first two. He broke up with me cause I was having a really bad week and it made him think that I didn't want to date him and made him think that I didn't like him. To be honest I was kinda losing feelings for him, but now that we're over all my feelings are back and there 10x's stronger. He said we would be best friends, but he doesn't talk or look at me. I'm thinking he's talking to this girl cause they comment on each others walls on facebook all the time and hungout today. She's not a virgin too and he probably likes her for that reason too. What do I do? Get over him? Its not really working, I like him a lot now.
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You said: "To be honest I was kinda losing feelings for him..."
The truth of the matter is that he could tell this was happening, even though you weren't honest enough to tell him this.
Now that he has ended it, because it was obvious to him that your feelings were gone, you want what you can't have... him.
Some people are just that way. They want what they can't have, and once they get it, they don't want it anymore. I think we all do this in different ways. Reality is that the old saying:
The wanting of a thing is not half so good as the having of it.
... is true. You can want a new model car, but as soon as the newness wears off, that whole desire is over.
So what about love? Love is like falling in love with a certain car, and restoring it from the ground up. You keep that car for life, and it becomes a part of you.
What you have going on here isn't love. You only want what you can't have. You only have strong feelings for this guy when you can't have him. When you are with him, you lose any feelings you had before you got together.
Be honest with yourself, and move on so that you can fall in love with someone. It is a whole different thing.
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I would tell you to get over him but i know that never works. what i can tell you is that if you were starting to lose feelings for him and then getting the m back after you guyz break up says that it might just be a infatuation. the best thing i can tell you is get a ditaction, a rebound. this will help you to try to move on. and if you think he likes that girl because shes not a virgin then it show that he wants sex from you. my opinion is try to forget about him and don't listen, do, or look at things that remind you of him.
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