All my friends say that I'm beautiful (I just recently dyed my hair red) and that I don't need to date. But every time my friends start talking about awesome it was to hang out with their Boyfriends and their plans for the weekend with their BF, I feel left out. I am the only one of my friends that is single. Is there a way to feel less like an outcast??? I'm only 13...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? nikz answered Friday April 22 2011, 5:34 pm: well being 13 is still pretty young but i understand what you're going through and at this age i doubt you would find a life partner, so think about it like this, you won't have to go through all the emotional stress like your boyfriend breaking up with you and you getting a broken heart at this age and your friends will soon go through it so don't rush it hun you have plenty of time for now just enjoy being 13 and tell your friends that when it's your time to hang out that they shouldn't be bragging about their boyfriends because it's getting abit old [ nikz's advice column | Ask nikz A Question ]
heyzx3 answered Friday April 22 2011, 1:48 pm: oh honey your fine! believe me, every girl goes through this. it doesnt matter that all your friends have boyfriends and you dont, sure it feels lonely but it takes time and maturity to find the right person. i promise that none of your friend's realationships will work out for very long at this age. while it may seem like its the end of the world, you will realize as you grow older that its really not and that spending time with your friends while your young is better than having a boyfriend. most girls who have boyfriends at young ages end up alienating their friends, and by the time that they and their boyfriends break up, they have lost all their friends and are left with no one. hanging out with friends is so much more important in the long run, believe me, and when youre ready the right guy will come along! plus a lot of girls havent dated anyone or have never even kissed a boy before they get to highschool. it just may seem like EVERYONE has because everyone is embarrassed to admit it when they havent had that much experience. just keep your head held high, your beautiful and when you get a older youll find the right guy who will love you. [ heyzx3's advice column | Ask heyzx3 A Question ]
Barbiee answered Friday April 22 2011, 1:21 am: im 13 2t, i noe how that feels, well ive never really had a boyfriend,i have made out with a couple of guys but dont do that, thats bad cuz then their like ohh shes just my make out buddie. so dont really rush into it right noe, if you not really after a guy dont just look for one, to have a boyfriend, the one that was ment fer you will come just go with the flow. youll soon find that special someone [ Barbiee's advice column | Ask Barbiee A Question ]
Jennefer answered Thursday April 21 2011, 11:20 pm: I know how you feel, but don't be in a rush to get a boyfriend ur still alittle younge and when its the right time you will know. and plus boy ur age are imature. [ Jennefer's advice column | Ask Jennefer A Question ]
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