okay so theres two guyz one let call him chris i met in school. his a senor and im a freshmen problem is he has a girlfriend...so out of nowhere he started talking to me and then it turn in to flirting and then touching he huges me grabs my waist and hips. i realized this was wrong lil to late because istarted liking him alot. he was the first guy to ever give me that kind of attention in high school. i have tried everything to stop liking him, ive stopped talking to him iv e gotten mad at him but nothing works. a week ago he unhooked my bra and i didnt like that so ignored him for a day thats when i stopped liking him and thats were the other guy comes in let call him jerry, this guy has kind of been on the backround(his a sophmore 16) but one day we did a project together and he is so lead back and sweet and nice and was flirting with me big time and i started liking him. he is not all touchy feely like chris and i like that about him but the problem is that he barly flirts with me in school now and its because chris is alway constently touching me, poking grabbing etc...in front of jerry and ive seen the looks on jerrys face that tells me he doesnt like it.i dont want jerry the wrong idea that i like chris and that i like to be touched like that. so what do i do to i get chris to back off and jerry to know im intreasted in him and that i like him??? help!
dolphina answered Friday April 22 2011, 8:11 pm: When I first saw this question I though you were going to say which one should I date.... Thank goodness you're not into Chris because I promise you he doesn't like you he is fully the player type. But I like Jerry and you should communicate to you that you hate that Chris touches you like that and feel uncomfortable so that Jerry won't be mad with YOU.
As for Chris, just stop ignoring him completely. If he grabs your butt or unhooks you or anything literally don't flirt with him or give him any satisfaction. [ dolphina's advice column | Ask dolphina A Question ]
bewise answered Friday April 22 2011, 5:42 am: Hi, I am glad that you think Chris should back off. He sounds awful!
I think that you should tell Jerry that you wish Chris would back off, and also tell him that you don't like Chris like that at all. Tell Jerry that you much prefer guys who are kind, sweet and respectful towards women, as they are all qualities that Jerry has, you could even say "I prefer guys who are kind, sweet and respectful, like you". He should feel really good after that.
Maybe you could even ask Jerry's advice on how to get Chris to stop it. It will show Jerry that you are serious about it, and he may like that you respect his ideas and advice!
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