My man is in prison and he wants to know how I feel about being commuted to two men? I know he wants to make sure im taken care of physically but how would you respond if you were asked this question?
bewise answered Saturday April 23 2011, 4:57 am: Hi.
I think that it is good you are getting some advice on this! It sounds like you are in a tricky position at this time.
I always recommend being committed to one person at a time. I also recommend not even dating a person unless you think you can see it turning into marriage.
If I were in your position, I would consider what the crimes were that put my partner into prison in the first place, and decide if they show the kind of character I would like in my husband. Would you want you children to display the same behaviours? If you don't like those things, I recommend reconsidering your relationship with him.
If you believe that you still love your partner enough to 'see this thing through', like loving him through good times and bad, then I recommend not bringing in another person to take care of you physicallly. If you love him enough, you can wait for him. [ bewise's advice column | Ask bewise A Question ]
Jennefer answered Friday April 22 2011, 12:07 pm: This depends on how you feel about it. Are you comfortable with being with another man? It is obvious that all he wants to do is take care of you, so it is about how you feel about it. [ Jennefer's advice column | Ask Jennefer A Question ]
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