Alright so i'm a pretty girl (not trying to be conceited) but so many guys think I'm this sex freak cause I'm cute. I am not a virgin, i've only had sex once. But the thing that I'm worried about is making out. I've made out with three guys my whole life. And they have all been spread out. Like from the first makeout to the second was literally about 3 years. Then the second to the last make out was about 9 months. I feel like I'm not a good kisser because I haven't had as much experience. So this is what always ends up happening:
When I start making out with a guy I start to giggle and kind of laugh. I don't know why I do this, I think it's because I feel more comfortable and if I am a bad kisser that they will think i'm not really trying since i'm giggling so they won't think anything of it.
Yeah, it's weird. But the past two guys I've done this with have been like "why are you giggling?" Then they think that it's something they did and that I don't want to make out anymore.
Do you have any suggestions for this!? I'm such a paranoid person, I don't want to be a bad kisser!
Additional info, added Friday April 22 2011, 1:02 am: Also, if I really want to make out with a guy I will stop myself. If they try kissing me I wont let them at first because I'm scared they'll think I'm bad. Finally I give in but then I start the giggling. . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? dolphina answered Friday April 22 2011, 4:18 pm: Don't giggle... You will not get a reputation of being a bad kisser, you'll get the reputation of being weird because you laugh whenever any one kisses you...that's weird dude.
But next time, just RELAX! I swear it's not hard, and FOLLOW the guy. Guy's typically lead so just let him lead you. It's strange and really really awkward if you just laugh. I promise that's more awkward than being a bad kisser, so just try it [ dolphina's advice column | Ask dolphina A Question ]
bewise answered Friday April 22 2011, 3:21 am: I agree that it is nervousness making you laugh, and as you pointed out, it is a cover up for you feeling like you are inexperienced.
I think you should try and relax. Take a few deep breaths and then just go and let him kiss you.
light sucking of the lips is nice, and gentle slow feeling of the front part of their tongue. Don't press too hard, don't do fast crazy stuff, and don't put your tongue in too far.
If it feels nice, then he is doing it right. If it feels gross, then he is doing it wrong. NOT YOU, unless you are doing those things I said not to do :-)
I hope this helps. If you would like me to answer more questions for you, then please feel free to go to my column and 'ask bewise a question'. I love to help!
And the same as learning to read, or learning to draw or learning to do maths. The more you kiss, the better you will get at doing it.
My advice is to keep the kisses for someone really special, who will still love you whether you can kiss well or not. Then kiss them lots and get really good at it! [ bewise's advice column | Ask bewise A Question ]
Barbiee answered Friday April 22 2011, 1:10 am: your nevous 2t kiss him trust me, if you make out with someone && yer like uggh they dont noe how to kiss then its you that doesnt noe how 2t kiss, do you gett me?? hope this helps at all [ Barbiee's advice column | Ask Barbiee A Question ]
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