Recently my mate and I have decided to spice up our intimate life.. He told me to look into it sometime. There's only one problem.. When it comes to looking at pictures of real people being intimate, I honestly don't like it. I was wondering if there was a site or maybe an e book that has drawings instead of photographs of people.. or whatever.. Thanks.
Additional info, added Thursday April 21 2011, 4:29 pm: I should add that I'm rather in-experienced in that field. The only things I know are the simple basics (him on top, me on top, doggy) I want something new that will be good for both of us. You can refer me to books, or sites, as well as give me suggestions that helped you and/or your mate in the intimacy field. Thank you for your time and advice :). Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? adviceman49 answered Friday April 22 2011, 12:08 pm: Hi, I'm old enough to be your grandfather; hopefully the wisdom that comes with age and life experiences will be helpful.
I did a little searching and found a couple of websites and a couple of books for you to look at. You may find the books at your local library and want to look at them before purchase. I found them at amazon but you may find them at a local book store as well.
I'm rather liberal in my views on sex and since you say you are rather in-experienced let me offer this one piece of advice. Nothing that happens in the confines of your home or bedroom is weird as long as you and your mate both consent to what it is you or your mate wish to try. Always remember no mean no and stop means stop no matter where in the act of sex you are.
Communication is also important. You need to communicate your likes and dislikes. To learn from each other what makes sex the best for you.
If you remember those simple suggestion you should have a great sex life.
Books:
Mastering Multiple Position Sex: Mind-Blowing Lovemaking Techniques That Create Unforgettable Orgasms [Paperback]
Eric Marlowe Garrison
Joy of Sex [Deluxe Edition] [Paperback]
Alex Comfort
xokristabelle answered Thursday April 21 2011, 5:06 pm: While I'm not comfortable giving specific advice, I know the Cosmopolitan Kama Sutra book (Amazon and bookstores have it) has just drawings, not graphic photos, and is pretty easy to understand. [ xokristabelle's advice column | Ask xokristabelle A Question ]
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