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Songs to help me through a breakup


Posted Monday April 25 2011, 9:50 pm

what are some amazinbg breakup songs? nothing sad. something more like "smile" by lilly allen, or "you oughta know" by alanis morisette. I want a shitload of songs where the guys an ass and the girl wants to get him back or something. please helppp

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Posted Monday April 25 2011, 8:59 pm

What do you say to make your girlfriend feel important, cute, and make her say awww?

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I slept with my ex...


Posted Monday April 25 2011, 5:35 pm

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me a few months ago, because he told me he has issues and wasn't ready to carry on a relationship. (he went through a divorce a few years before we started dating) I hung out with him at a mutual friend's birthday the other day...I acted very casual around him, and he did the same. Afterwords, we ended up spending the rest of the night together, talking about the problems outside of our relationship we had been going through since our breakup. He finally said, "Okay, you're coming home with me. You need a break." And so I ended up back at his place...we talked more that night, never going into the relationship we had previously had, other than him apologizing again for breaking up with me...He was ver...

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Cheating


Posted Monday April 25 2011, 1:48 pm

The day I met him I said I was going to marry him, I said thats him, im going to marry that guy someday. It's almost been a year and we have had a rocky long distance relationship with cheating problems(mainly me) He is the guy I love and want to marry, he is my best friend. How do we make things right after what I have done? How do we find a way to move forward with our relationship? We currently aren't together because he is hurt.

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Why cant i get a boyfriend


Posted Monday April 25 2011, 1:45 pm

I am gay. I havent had a boyfriend in months. I really want a boyfriend. My friends say "You'll Find someone" but i havent. its been 8 months. Does anyone have any advice on how to pick up a guy?

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Cheated


Posted Monday April 25 2011, 1:45 pm

My guy and I are both 18. He lives in a different country and we met when he was here on exchange. We instantly connected and our relationship went very fast. He left back to his country two months after we met and we did the whole long distance thing for 6 months. A little more info: three weeks after we met(and we said we were dating) he kissed another girl and lied to me about it for 6 months saying they didn't kiss, I always knew deep down that they did, so when my friend told me I should kiss this other guy I did. I told my boyfriend the next day because I could never keep something like that from him. So after he went back to his country we had a big fight one night and I went and kissed another guy. So after being in a long dist. rel...

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confused vith my r'ship


Posted Monday April 25 2011, 11:20 am

hai...!!!i hve r'ship fr abt 7mths ago...!!ya v we in close r'ship vith ech othr...!!thing ws lft btwn us...!!everytg gt over..!!d tg is tat he dint keep up his wrdz...!!nw he is chging his wrdz..!!telling me tat he cnt maary me ..!1n tking vith me..!!nt tking txting me r nt clling nw..!!iam really confused vith my lfy..!!n i dnt wnt to gve up my love lfy sooo easly..!!i true love him...!!hope he to does..!!plllllllllllllllllllllllllllzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me out..!!fr tis pbl..!!

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After 4 years and 2 kids I don't know why he treats me like this? Why do I take it?


Posted Monday April 25 2011, 4:07 am

Ive been with my boyfriend for 4yrs already we have 2 kids together. He treats me like im a piece of garbage and i dont understand why I put up with it.
Im a smart person i got my AA and now im working on my teaching degree. Im the one that works and takes care of our kids while his lazy ass sits around and does nothing yet he has the nerve to call me nasty names to tell me im ugly, fat, and worthless... I know i deserve better i just had my son 2 months ago and im not fat i have a pouch but that will go away with some exercise im 5'4" and i weigh 155. I think im a beautiful person inside and outside. I just cant understand why he treats me the way he does I do everything for him. I go out of my way to try and keep him happy I ...

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He won't go on top becaue he is afraid he will hurt me!


Posted Sunday April 24 2011, 7:25 pm

Hey so I know my boyfriend likes being on top (during sex) and he knows I hate being on top yet whenever we have sex he refuses to be on top. He says he's too strong and I'm too small an he'll "go too hard" and hurt me. Would it actually hurt...? I'm 5'5 110lbs and he's 6'2 185. How can I show him I can "handle" it? Haha

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How should I deal with this drama?


Posted Sunday April 24 2011, 6:51 pm

I'm a 32/female. I work as a server and worked til midnight on Thursday. I drank alot of caffeine while working so I thought I would stop on the way home and get a drink and order some food for my boyfriend who i live with. I ended up drinking 3 beers and got some wings for him and talked to this girl who said she had just moved here from LA and had no girl friends here. When i got home it was almost 2:00 in the morning and when I walked in the cushions were gone off the couch, the tv was gone, computer was gone, mattress gone. My phone had been dead so i put it on the charger and called my boyfriend. When he answered he called me a whore and said i had been out whoring around. I said first of all dont ever call me a whore, and that i had g...

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Bofriend problem


Posted Sunday April 24 2011, 6:18 pm

OK, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month now and i thought that i liked him but now i realize that i don't really like him, i am still in love with my past boyfriend and this is really hard i don't know what to do at all with the boyfriend that i have now??? And i think that my past boyfriend still likes me also so i am stuck between the to and did i mention that my mom and my boyfriend now's mom work together and are really close!! PLEASE HELP!!!!
I am 13 years old
and well duh i am a female.

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PDA with my gf: My girlfriend acts like we are strangers in front of anybody!


Posted Sunday April 24 2011, 4:12 pm

Ok this may sound kind of wierd but bear with me while I give the set up please. I am a teenage male and I have been dating this girl for about 2 1/2 months. When we hang out in a group of friends we have a mutual friend who is a boy. When ever my gf walks into the room he is always hugging her and sitting with her and she lets him. The catch is that this boy is gay so I should have no problem with it except that I want to be the one she hangs all over and sits closely with. She is not big on PDA but I would like her to be able to walk up to me and not act like complete strangers when we are in public. Is there something I can say to her about this mutual friend and also on a general note of mild affectionate PDA as a whole. Please help, I ...

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Is it normal to have a crush on your step-brother?


Posted Sunday April 24 2011, 3:53 pm

I'm a fifteen year old girl and I have recently started to develop feelings for my step-brother. He is two years older than me and we see each other ever other weekend.
We've known each other for about eight years and we've always had a sort of love/hate relationship.
We would annoy the hell out of each other and he would insult me but recently things have become different.
Before we would wrestle and I'd just be determined to win. But now I don't care about winning I just enjoy wrestling and it isn't as serious as it was before it's more playful. Also a few times whilst we've been fighting I've brushed his lower are and felt what turns out to have been an erection. We'll be fighting and one of us will straddle the o...

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Love matter


Posted Sunday April 24 2011, 1:57 pm

Im frm india,male 16..I gotta keep my love for a longer period of time..I never wish to break up our relationship.What all things i gotta keep in mind? And also how can i make her to love me realy seriously like she would never leave me....

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i broke it off and now i regret it.


Posted Sunday April 24 2011, 10:01 am

I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday. I just didn't feel happy anymore. He barely made time for me like he did when we first started dating. He ignored all my calls and texts, and I just felt so doubtful that he liked me. I couldn't take it anymore. He just changed. He was so sweet and caring and loving and funny, everything to me. I kept pushing my doubts aside, fighting with myself not to break it off. And finally, I did. He didn't make any attempts to talk about what was the problem, because he's lazy. He had the time to, he just wouldn't pick up the phone. He always made up excuses as to why we couldn't hang out. His bike tire was broken. He had to do yard work. He didn't feel good. All those excuses. And when I could give him a ride ...

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my boyfriend doesnt care again


Posted Sunday April 24 2011, 8:05 am

I am a nigerian.. My boyfriend suddenly changed, he doesn't call to tell me his plans like he used to before, he is always in a hurry to diconnect the call each time he tries to call and he always promise to call back which he doesn't. The bad thing is that he doesn't see any big deal in it.

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how can I make it less akward?


Posted Saturday April 23 2011, 6:47 pm

okay so i like this guy and were really not that close but we do talk some. but when we talk its get alittle akward like its always the same thing hey, whats up,...etc. like theres nothing to talk about. any advice on how to make it less akward?

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mixed messages during first "date"- salvagable?


Posted Saturday April 23 2011, 4:32 pm

Hi! A follow up question to my previous queries (under the same subject title). The guy didn't call (after my "umbrella msg"). I sent a text asking him to go to a movie since I had to be in his town for another reason and indicated if he were most comfortable making it a platonic outing, I would be ok with that as well. He never responded in any way and I have not heard from him in the ensuing question. Although a lack of response seems a bit rude, I still have positive interest in this guy. I am hearing loud and clear he's not that into me. Would it be ok to check in with him in a 2 or 3
of months and either 1) explore what went wrong or 2) ask him out again.
Perhaps I should mention that I had gained ALOT of weig...

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doing something special for him


Posted Saturday April 23 2011, 2:23 pm

18/f

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months now. I'm in love with him. He's honestly the best person I have ever known. He's my best friend and I just feel so amazing around him :) We have gotten into many arguments and he is starting to doubt our relationship. He has considered breaking up many times but thank god he decided not to. I really really do love him, with all of my heart. Anyways, I was wondering if anybody had some ideas or advice on some ways I can show or do something to show him how much he means to me? I've done things like bake him a cake, made him a blanket, made him food, bought him some things like clothes and rings. But thats not what i'm looking for.. I want to do something or get someth...

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big butt


Posted Saturday April 23 2011, 1:38 pm

how can i grow a bigger butt

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