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mixed messages during first "date"- salvagable?
Hi! A follow up question to my previous queries (under the same subject title). The guy didn't call (after my "umbrella msg"). I sent a text asking him to go to a movie since I had to be in his town for another reason and indicated if he were most comfortable making it a platonic outing, I would be ok with that as well. He never responded in any way and I have not heard from him in the ensuing question. Although a lack of response seems a bit rude, I still have positive interest in this guy. I am hearing loud and clear he's not that into me. Would it be ok to check in with him in a 2 or 3
of months and either 1) explore what went wrong or 2) ask him out again.
Perhaps I should mention that I had gained ALOT of weight between our initial aquaintenceship and the "reunion" meeting and I wonder if that is part of what went wrong ( I have been losing weight over past 8 weeks and expect to continue losing 10-13 lbs per month. Also I am considering contacting him again in the future because I am interested/attracted to him in a way that is quite uncommon for me. It's happened 2 times in past 11 years.
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Just let it go, there are more fish in the sea. You don't owe it to him to mention that you were once fat and now getting skinny or vice versa. He's blown you off. Teach yourself not to be interested after this happens.
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Hmmm... I can't say if its your weight or not. Who knows with that kind of stuff. But I definitely think the guy is giving you the brush off. Don't spend any more time on this one. I know you are dying to know what the real deal is, but you have to except the fact that he just isn't that into you and move on. Contacting him again in a few months when he hasn't even returned a text would only make you look more desperate. Don't send anymore texts or messages. His lack of communication is answer enough. I'm sorry you had to fall for such a rude guy, but try not to take it too personally. If he was really interested the weight thing wouldn't be an issue at all, so stop thinking about that. And stop wasting any more energy on this guy. He's not interested. If he changes his mind, he knows how to get a hold of you. Walk away. There is someone better out there for you but you may be missing him by spending so much energy worrying about this guy. You can do better. Good luck.
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I think you should let it go. Hes obviously not interested in any way
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