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Cheating
The day I met him I said I was going to marry him, I said thats him, im going to marry that guy someday. It's almost been a year and we have had a rocky long distance relationship with cheating problems(mainly me) He is the guy I love and want to marry, he is my best friend. How do we make things right after what I have done? How do we find a way to move forward with our relationship? We currently aren't together because he is hurt.
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It is completely understandable that he is hurt. Unfortunately, when we make choices that are not totally thought out people do get hurt including ourselves. If he truly loves you and you love him, it will work. Because as someone very wise taught me "love endures all things, love never fails." It may take some time but love will find its way back to you. You need to rebuild your relationship with him and start over rebuilding feelings, trust and everything. Let it be a lesson to you, if you love someone appreciate them because someone else may come along and appreciate what you didn't, don't worry whats done is done. This can be mended just trust and have faith in something bigger than you, love.
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If he was the one you wanted to marry, Then why did you cheat? Cheating creates trust issues and drains out a relationship. There is no guarantee he will come around and if he does you are lucky as hell to be giving another chance. Right now, Give him his space if you hound him to come around it may only give him more of a reason to move on. If he comes around then he comes around but waiting until he is ready is pretty much all you can do. It's hard to convince someone you love them after you cheating on them.
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