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Why cant i get a boyfriend
I am gay. I havent had a boyfriend in months. I really want a boyfriend. My friends say "You'll Find someone" but i havent. its been 8 months. Does anyone have any advice on how to pick up a guy?
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If you are always on the look out for a boyfriend, it won't happen. I have never gotten a boyfriend when I was looking for one, it always happened when I was not expecting it. When you look to hard you give off a desperate vibe and it really turns a lot of guys off (I have met that guy and I have been that guy). But you do have to be happy with yourself. My last boyfriend helped me feel a lot better about myself with a few pointers:
1) Wear clothes that are your size, not too tight or too loose. Too tight can make you look egocentric, and too loose can make you look like a slob.
2) Walk with pride. I walked with a slouch all of the time, and I never realized how big a difference it made to stand up straight and sit up straight. It says a lot about how confident you are in yourself, and it actually makes you feel better about yourself.
Those were the two biggest ones. And if you find a guy that you like, dont try to rush him. Let him take his time. Let me know if this helps, and message me if I can help you with anything else!
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Maybe you need to stop worrying about finding happiness in another person and start wondering why you can't be content with yourself? Nobody wants somebody who doesn't even like themself. If you can't feel confident and content without a significant other, you have a bigger issue than just not being able to find a boyfriend. You need to find out what exactly what's missing inside you, why, and how to fix it. Then the right person will come along, because everyone is attracted to joyful people.
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maybe all u need to do is talk to more guys and be more straight forward so if u like someone tell them and c how it turns out
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